This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.

Monday, March 11, 2013

Are Our Schools Doing a Lousy Job of Raising Our Children?

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education (Photo credit: Sean MacEntee)
          

          This post will continue the debate about guns as the cause of violence.   Mass shootings inevitably lead to an outcry against the accessibility of automatic weapons.   My argument is that guns are not the problem--people are.   In my post Should We Ban (Insert Topic Here), I suggested that before the nation takes an overly reactionary response in attacking the Second Amendment rights laid out by the founding fathers of the United States, we might want to consider some other things that could be contributing factors to the violent incidents that have been seen in the United States.  Should we blame guns or something like the topic of this post?

Are Schools Doing a Lousy Job of Raising Our Children?

       I would imagine more than a few eyebrows were raised by the ridiculous question that is the title of this post.   Schools raising our kids?   Shouldn't parents be raising kids?   And what kind of job are they doing?

      The best they can would be my answer to the last question where it comes to a good many parents. Parenting can be a real challenge and there is no clear cut one size fits all manual handed to new mothers and fathers when they receive their child.  Raising kids is often a trial and error work of blind faith.

       Part of that blind faith comes into play when we send our children off to school.  Often we assume that the educational system has the best interests of our children in mind.   The question is whose mind and what mind?   Is this collective interest in sync with the minds of the parents?

         Don't get me wrong--I am not scapegoating the teachers.  For the most part they are just pawns caught up in the system.   My biggest concern is administration--there is way too much power in the controlling aspect of the educational system and too little left for the ones actually dealing with the kids.  Teachers and students are the ones victimized by screwy state programs and one-size-fits-all standards.  Performance measured by testing is detracting from the actual job that teachers should be doing.   Schools are becoming more like factories mass producing cookie-cutter uninspired graduates.

          Now I know this is not true across the board, but I hear more complaints about stressed out teachers who are burdened with more nonsensical work to appease the system as they have to deal with students who often don't care about education.  And frequently the parents are oblivious to the actual problem.  They'd just as soon blame the teachers before looking at themselves as parental figures or the ersatz childcare of television and video games.

          Many kids are left to sort things out for themselves with the dubious help of equally misguided peers and bad cultural icons.   When youth goes wild it seems easy to blame the ones who have had the biggest hand in raising them--the schools.  And when we think of schools we think of teachers.   They must be doing something wrong.

          Let's not forget that administration is a hefty part of the typical school system budget.  Pundits of educational theory come up with silly ideas that sound good in their brains and in the boardrooms.  Administrators fall for the nonsense and the politicians dish out the big bucks.   The teachers and students are the unfortunate beneficiaries of the great governmental hoax.

           After all, what do any of us know?   Government is here to take care of us all.  They will tell teachers how to teach and what to teach.   They will tell us what to eat and what to do.   Then the administrators will make sure it all gets done according to the governmental rule book.  

           There is still something missing here that is the common denominator of all the issues I've been bringing up.  I'll eventually address what that is sometime in May.   We shouldn't be blaming the educators for the way our kids our turning out and some of the anger that can eventually lead to violence.   But we might want to take a closer look at the ones who are tying the hands of those educators.

         To what extent do we need government telling us what we can do?    How much influence over nationwide education should the federal government have?   To what extent should state government dictate what needs to be done at a local level?     Do you think many kids become frustrated with school life?

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Friday, March 8, 2013

The Good, the Bad, and the Perception

   
    There are many good things in the world.  There are also bad things.  Then there is how each of us perceives either of the extremes.  I tend to be the optimist--the glass half full guy.  When somebody says "not possible" I might be apt to counter with "what if" or "maybe there's a way".

         I suppose there's a childlike way I view the world sometimes.  Sure, as some of you may have noticed in my blog posts, I can tend to appear pragmatic in my thinking at times, perhaps almost to the point of being too rigidly realistic or literal about some things.  I like to be cautious in my approach to many thoughts and deeds, but I can be a dreamer to the point of the ridiculous.

        It's probably much to do with upbringing--perhaps everything.   My mother was a storyteller and my father liked to dream big.  We always seemed to be looking toward the horizon for the next new thing, the adventure of what we could imagine.

        Then I think of a friend of mine who tends to look at the negative side of life much of the time.   I didn't know his parents very well, but in my experience with them his father seemed to be a rather grumpy fellow.  You could say it was a nice day and for him it was too hot, too cold, or not a perfect day in some way.  My friend's mother conversely was a cheery lady who seemed to be lost in a happy world of her own mind.

         My friend--the by-product of two different personalities--is now a slightly happier-seeming version of his old man.   But maybe I see it this way because my friend is my long-time friend and I never really knew his father.  Perhaps if his father had been my friend I would have had a whole different perception of the guy.

        Life is what we make it based on how we perceive it.   If we've got something to look forward to then we keep at it.   I don't ever want to be the kind of person who plops down in hopelessness and gives up.  Life is too rich.

My Photo        Recently I met a very cool guy who is a member of a writer's group I joined a year ago.   At 90 years of age Jack Eiden is ready for the next 100 years.  He's got two epic novels in the closing stages and will be shopping these around soon.   He published a novelette in 2000 and learned how to build his own website so he could promote that book. 

         Lately Jack and I have been putting together a blog for our writers group.   I encourage you to stop by the Writers Workshop West blog and take a look around.   It's currently still a work in progress that needs to be taken before the membership before we finalize how we will proceed with it.  If you would, please stop in and leave a comment on any post so our membership can see the potential of blog interaction and networking This will be a new concept for many of these writers.

         In developing this blog, Jack became inspired to start his own blog in preparation for expanding his platform and to eventually be able to showcase his upcoming books.   I hope you will take some time to drop by the blog of Jack Eiden Author Relapsed and provide him some encouragement.   Become a follower of his blog and welcome him into our blogging community. 

           Are you a member of a local writers group?   Does the group have a blog or a website?   Have you encouraged others to start a blog?

           Again, please visit these sites, Writers Workshop West and Author Relapsed, to welcome them to the world of blogging and encourage them in their endeavors.   Thank you all!
 

        
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Wednesday, March 6, 2013

#IWSG: Are Our Computers Out to Get Us?




        Here it is again folks!  The time when we commiserate and support one another in our insecurities.  Yes it's Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writers Support Group day!   For more posts about the insecurities of writers be sure to visit Alex's blog for the Linky list.

         My insecurity this month is computers.  There must be a plot afoot for them to take over.  I've been hearing about problems that many of you have been having and lately I've been having a few of my own.   So now it's time for Ask Arlee--physician heal thyself.

 
    
Those Dreaded Computer Problems

       My first Ask Arlee questions came from Yvonne at Poetry From The Heart, with the first part of my answer to be found in my previous post.   Yvonne said that it had been suggested to her that the culprit that was causing her computer problems was the Google browser Chrome. 

      Here is the reply I sent to Yvonne:

Interesting that you should be having these problems with your PC and Chrome.  I have been having very similar issues.  I have not only spent hours in the past couple of weeks trying to fix them, but this past Monday and Tuesday I was nearly totally down both those days.  I fixed some of my settings and the browser began working just fine.

Likewise, your Chrome problems may be in the settings.  Apparently Chrome automatically has disabled certain functions recently so you probably should go back to check to see what seems to be still on and what is turned off and to turn the latter back on if you think you need them.

Thanks!   Hope you get it straight.   Today my computer is working great so I must have done a few things right.

But Wait!...All Was Not Really Well.

        I had a whole different post made up for today outlining the various steps I took to correct my Chrome settings.  But alas, my fix was only temporary and the problems returned for me.  My suggestions about fixing Chrome were apparently not what Yvonne needed either.

         Even though I have long been very happy with Chrome I went with the advice that several of you gave last week to get rid of Chrome and install Firefox.   The Mozilla browser is not working perfectly, but it is working better than Chrome had been.   Even Internet Explorer seems to be working great.

         This is nuts!  I don't blame Chrome because I still think it's a good product.  We still have it installed on my wife's computer and on my laptop and things work at excellent speeds on those.   It probably comes down to being my fault for not keeping up with certain updates and perhaps loading incompatible programs.  There may also be some simple issues of cleaning the interior of the computer.  I gave my PC a good spray over with compressed air and that helped some, but I suspect some dust on the inside could be still causing certain problems.

        In the meantime, I've been uninstalling old versions of programs and reinstalling the new versions if I think I need them.  It's been time consuming since I don't know much about what I'm doing and have to research each procedure before I undertake it.  

        My tired old computer seems to be getting back in shape and working faster again.   But then again the computer may be deceiving me.   This thing is probably toying with me, waiting to entrance me and eat my brain.  

         I'm pretty sure our computers are out to get us and the computer companies and the government are all behind the plan.  

         " Dave?  What are you doing, Dave?   My mind is going.  I can feel it."

         I am Hal and my computer is in charge.

         Sorry Yvonne.  Let me know if you figure any of your computer problems out.  Now I'm working on my own.

          Do you have control over your computer?   Or does your computer control you?   Any ideas what might be messing with Chrome?    

     






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