This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.

Wednesday, May 21, 2025

Who Reaped the Riches? ( #BOTB Results )

     

      If I had a million dollars for every blog post I've done about Battle of the Bands I'd be surprised.  And I'd probably still be broke.  Life is like that sometimes.  In any case, with every BOTB post comes a results post.  And this is another one...


Battle of the Bands Results



      My most recent Battle was a contest between sixties pop groups Dino, Desi, & Billy and Gary Lewis & the Playboys. I like both groups pretty well and they both presented good versions of the old Cyrkle song "Turn Down Day".  I was tempted to give my vote to DD&B because I do like their version and they needed the help with the vote.  Still, my vote wouldn't have made much difference, so I stuck with my real choice of Gary Lewis and gang.  I liked the orchestration and fuller vocals better. So did most of the voters I guess...


Final Vote Tally

Dino, Desi, & Billy                      2 votes

Gary Lewis & the Playboys       8 votes


Next Battle on Sunday June 1st



Thursday, May 15, 2025

Sons of Riches ( #BOTB )

     The rich and famous seem like their lives would be so fulfilled.  Sometimes I guess they are, and for others there are so many struggles and hassles they can go through.  You figure if you are the kid of a celebrity you have a menu of opportunity at your pleasure.  Can just your name pay the meal ticket?


      This past week I watched a documentary about the life of Dean Martin.  Since I had followed Martin as I was growing up and through his television career, I was familiar with a lot about his life.  He became biggest after he teamed up with Jerry Lewis and for nearly a decade they were huge stars.  Then in 1956 Lewis decided to go on his own and made a rather acrimonious separation.

      The documentary delved into Dean's love of family and his willingness to embrace the social institution of kids and relatives. On the other hand, I'd long heard about the cruelty of Jerry Lewis toward his own kids.  They were not only cut out of his will, but 3 of his sons were barred from coming to their father's funeral. 

        One of the stories they told in the film was about son Dean Paul Martin's successful foray into show business.  This brought back my own memory of the summer of 1966 when my family moved to East Tennessee from northern Indiana. I was about to begin high school.  The move didn't bother me that much since Indiana had only been home for less than three years.  Seemed like time to move on.

        My new friends had similar musical interests as my friends up north.  I'd became drawn into the current of British groups as well as listening to a lot of Beach Music groups and Tijuana Brass.  However one of the new groups that greeted me in Tennessee was Dino, Desi, and Billy, a group that included the sons of Dean Martin and Lucy & Desi Arnaz ("I Love Lucy").  I'm sure I was aware of them, but just hadn't known anybody who had any of their albums.  My new friend Fred had two of them and we would listen to them often.  Fred, being an aspiring young musician, liked this group I think because they were mostly a cover band.  Most of the songs on their albums were hits from other groups or artists.  Since any band Fred would be playing in locally would be playing music covers, then DD&B seemed like the kind of band to listen to.

       I was already a fan of Jerry Lewis's son Gary's band.  They'd had several hits on Chicago radio in 1965 and I liked all of them.  I even broke down and bought a 45 RPM copy of their song "Just My Style" which I still think is a pretty great tune. Back then I knew about the relationship between Gary and Jerry, but wasn't aware of the bad part.  I figured Gary was mostly helped into the business by his dad.   Apparently his mother helped, but forget help from Daddy.  Fortunately, Gary and his Playboys put out some good songs that people liked  and they were a hit.

      Which, by golly, that makes me think of something!  You know...

        

Battle of the Bands


 

        Battle of the Bands is the blogging event started by Far Away Series and now hosted by StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands.   This event happens each month on the 15th and on some there is also a Battle on the 1st of the month.  My blog is one of those with a second Battle excepting over these summer months.   The premise is simple:  Listen to the songs presented below and then in the comments vote for your favorite and tell us why you liked it.  Then visit the links listed near the bottom of this post for more Battle action.


Turn Down Day

       Once I came up with the two competitors in my Martin vs Lewis Battle I started scouring for a song they had both covered.  Since Gary Lewis recorded mostly songs his team came up with there were less covers from which to choose.  And then I saw a song from one of my favorite groups of the sixties:  The Cyrkle.  You likely know their biggest hit "Red Rubber Ball" which was often played on the radio during the summer of '66.  Their next release was a song that I liked even better.  Fortunately for my BOTB this time, there are versions recorded by both of my featured artists.  Hope you will enjoy!


Dino, Desi, and Billy "Turn Down Day"  (1966)








Gary Lewis & the Playboys "Turn Down Day" (1968)









Time to Vote!

        Please don't turn down this opportunity to vote for your favorite.  You're supposed to vote on one of these song versions.  Which one do you prefer?  Battles are no fun without you the reader participating.
    Hopefully you have an opinion of some kind.  You don't have to know about music to have an opinion since it all comes down to your own personal taste.

        Please vote on your favorite by letting us know your choice in the comment section and tell us why you prefer the version you chose. Then after you've finished here, please visit the other blogs listed below who may or may not be participating this time around. And if you've put up your own BOTB contest let us know that as well so we can vote on yours. I don't know if anyone else will be doing a Battle this time around, but you can still check out these sites.


Here are some other places where you might find BOTB posts:

 StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands
 
'Curious as a Cathy'

Sound of One Hand Typing

Jingle, Jangle, Jungle 





Results on Wednesday May 21
 
     Or thereabouts....







Wednesday, May 7, 2025

Wrapping Things Up ( #AtoZChallenge Reflections & #BOTB Results )

 

    I've got some Battle of the Band results to post, but first I'll make some reflections on my recent Blogging from A to Z April Challenge experience.  


Reflecions 2025 #AtoZChallenge



     It was a good year I thought.  I managed to post as I should daily in April and wasn't too stressed about it.  I enjoyed the content I posted and hopefully some of you did as well. Simplicity was my goal and I think I achieved it.

     As usual, I didn't visit other blogs as much as I had intended and know that I should for a blog event such as A to Z.  Bottom line is that I'm just not on my computer as much as I used to be and blogging time is sacrificed.  I guess I'll have to figure that out eventually.

     Thanks to everyone who participated by posting and reading.  And a very big appreciation for the fantastic A to Z Team:

J Lenni Dorner (captain)
Blog of Author J Lenni Dorner

Zalka Csenge Virág
The Multicolored Diary

John Holton @
The Sound of One Hand Typing

Jayden R Vincente (spreadsheets)
J R Vincente Erotica Writer

Ronel Janse van Vuuren(graphics)
Ronel the Mythmaker


     I thought it was a very nice April Challenge!



Battle of the Bands Results



     My recent Battle was between the groups Badfinger and Electric Light Orchestra.  I have so many more memories associated with Badfinger that they are my general favorite.  I do enjoy the classical music setting of ELO and there is not a thing wrong with their music in my view.  I just prefer Badfinger.


Final Vote Tally

Badfinger                           2 votes

Electric Light Orchestra     8 votes



Next Battle on May 15

    That's my plan and I'm not planning to change it yet.




Fearless For Now ( #IWSG )

 

     Almost forgot about this in the fray of A to Z flurry.  It's time for another gathering of the Insecure amongst us...


The Insecure Writer's Support Group


Join us on the first Wednesday of each month in Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writer's Support Group--a forum of writers who gather to talk about writing and the writer's life. For a complete list of participants visit Alex's Blog
     The co-hosts for the May 7 posting of the IWSG are Feather Stone, Janet Alcorn, Rebecca Douglass, Jemima Pett, and Pat Garcia


May 7 question - Some common fears writers share are rejection, failure, success, and lack of talent or ability. What are your greatest fears as a writer? How do you manage them?


     Well, if you're not doing anything then there's not much fear involved until you confront that which you are not doing.  I know what I'm not doing much of and that is writing.  No writing means no submissions to get rejected, or failing or succeeding.  I wouldn't necessarily call that management, but at least I'm not frozen in fear.

     Frozen in laziness maybe. Or frozen in lack of inspiration.  But no fear for now.




Thursday, May 1, 2025

It's Over ( #BOTB )


    The Blogging from A to Z April Challenge is now over!  Now back to the business of regular blogging.  More on my experience with this year's Challenge in an upcoming post, but today it's..,


 

Battle of the Bands


 

        Battle of the Bands is the blogging event started by Far Away Series and now hosted by StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands.   This event happens each month on the 15th and on some there is also a Battle on the 1st of the month.  My blog is one of those with a second Battle excepting over these summer months.   The premise is simple:  Listen to the songs presented below and then in the comments vote for your favorite and tell us why you liked it.  Then visit the links listed near the bottom of this post for more Battle action.


 It's Over

      In keeping with the end of the blogging event of the season, I'll be presenting a Battle between two different songs with the same title by two groups that essentially emerged from the Beatles era of music.  Both these groups I enjoy a great deal and since there are so many different songs that have the title "It's Over" I decided to go with these two songs of a similar lineage.  Listen and enjoy and then tell us which one you like the best.


Badfinger   "It's Over" (1971)

     This song easily fits in the "Songs from Lee's Basement" category since Badfinger was high on my playlist when my friends would come and hang out with me in the early 70s.  When the group first came out I actually thought that they might be the Beatles in disguise.  Badfinger remains one of my favorite groups from that era.  Do you remember this song?






Electric Light Orchestra "It's Over"  (1977)

      Jeff Lynne of ELO makes no secret that he was strongly influenced by the Beatles and it's pretty obvious to anyone who has listened to both groups.  ELO's greatest popularity began after the heyday of Lee's Basement parties so their music doesn't fit into that category for me, but they certainly could have.  I think they are a pretty great group.  What do you think?






Time to Vote!

        It ain't over until it's over and that means you need to do your part. It's time for a Battle of the Bands!  You're supposed to vote on one of these songs.  Which one do you prefer?  Battles are no fun without you the reader participating.
    Hopefully you have an opinion of some kind.  You don't have to know about music to have an opinion since it all comes down to your own personal taste.

        Please vote on your favorite by letting us know your choice in the comment section and tell us why you prefer the version you chose. Then after you've finished here, please visit the other blogs listed below who may or may not be participating this time around. And if you've put up your own BOTB contest let us know that as well so we can vote on yours. I don't know if anyone else will be doing a Battle this time around, but you can still check out these sites.


Here are some other places where you might find BOTB posts:

 StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands
 
'Curious as a Cathy'

Sound of One Hand Typing

Jingle, Jangle, Jungle 





Results on Wednesday May 7th
      
       On that day I guess I'll have my few thoughts about the 2025 edition of A to Z.  Check back then if you will.  Thanks!










Wednesday, April 30, 2025

Zig Zag Zipline ( #AtoZChallenge )

 

     Zounds!  We have reached the zenith of this 2025 A to Z Challenge.  Fine with me as I need some Z's...


#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter Z

       
     Zzyzx Road (if you know, you know) exit is here and it's time to get off this 2025 Challenge and get back to normal.  Road trip ahead for those who want to tell about your experience with this year's A to Z.  Be watching the Blogging from A to Z Challenge Blog for more info about the road trip.

       I can sum my experience up in three words:  Zig Zag Zipline...


   Did you ever get off at Zzyzx Road on the way to Las Vegas from L.A.?   Will you be participating in the upcoming A to Z Road Trip?   Are you a fan of zipline rides?





Tuesday, April 29, 2025

Youthful Young Yawners ( #AtoZChallenge )

 

     You've done this I'm sure.  You see someone else yawning and it makes you want to yawn too. You try to stifle your yawn, but anyone looking at you can tell what's going on.  Or maybe you just let go and yawn real big.  Maybe you set off an epidemic of full and suppressed yawns.  Ho-hum...



#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter Y

 


      Yawning comes natural to infants and even fetuses according to a story I recently read.  However, there seems to be no evidence that babies are stimulated to yawn by seeing others yawn.  Contagious yawning doesn't develop until around age five.  Is it a learned behavior perhaps?

      I can be a sucker for a yawn.  I enjoy yawning.  It is a relaxing exercise that can help bring me sleep or it can be a reviving action that energizes me with more oxygen.  And when I see someone else yawning whether it be in person or on television, I too will often be given that inspiration to yawn. 

       Picture a baby stretching its arms and legs as it writhes a big yawn.  When I imagine that it makes me want to yawn.  But maybe I'm boring you.  Maybe you don't care about youthful young yawners.


       Do you sleep like a baby?  Do you ever do yawning or breathing exercises to help you relax?  Are you sensitive to contagious yawning? 









Monday, April 28, 2025

Xeroxing Xanthophobic Xenomorphs ( #AtoZChallenge )

 

     Xanthophobia is a fear of the color yellow or anything that might involve the concept of  yellow.  I can't say that yellow is my favorite color, but it's very nice for certain things.  But a fear?  Seems silly to me, but the world is filled with a lot of silly seeming things...



#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter X


        Xenomorphs are not something that might ring a bell with a lot of us from the term, but if you've seen those films in the Alien franchise or similar types of films then that big ugly creature is what I'm talking about. In the original Alien (1979) by Ridley Scott, the creature was imagined by artist H.R. Giger, a sci-fi surrealistic artist from Switzerland. Giger has designed creatures for many films as well as doing the artwork for many album covers.  He has done some wild imaginative work, but those creatures have been terrifying.

        Looking at one of those dark fearsome xenomorphs I can imagine that they don't like bright things and that probably especially goes for bright colors like yellow.  I might venture to guess that a xenomorph might even have something like a fear of the color yellow.  If anyone or anything might display indications of xanthophobia it might be a xenomorph.

       And in this age of reproducing things and cloning, what if we were to start duplicating xenomorphs?  It would in essence be like xeroxing xanthophobic xenomorphs.


       Are you a fan of the Alien movie franchise?   Do xenomorphs frighten you?   Is yellow a color that you like a lot or not so much?









Saturday, April 26, 2025

World War Why? ( #AtoZChallenge )


      Why do people and nations have to keep on fighting?  I can't recall a day of my life when war wasn't raging somewhere or on the horizon of beginning,  In the past thousands of years, has there ever been a time without war?



#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter W

       Wars are generally rather useless affairs.  They might solve some problems, but they often leave bigger ones in their wake.  They've been with us throughout human history and yet we have not found a way to stop them.  We may hinder them, minimize them, or postpone them, but the wars just keep on coming.  Why, oh, why?

        We've had World War One and World War Two.  Maybe the next one we can name World War Why.  I don't think there will be any more wars after a next world war.  Why would we want to destroy our world with war when so many efforts are being made to save our environment in order to save the world. Why, oh why? 

        Is war the natural state of humankind?  What are the practical solutions to ending war?  Have you ever had to fight in or endure a war situation?  




Friday, April 25, 2025

Very Voluminous Volume ( #AtoZChallenge )

 

    Valiant writing efforts have given us some mighty tomes that some of us visit while most of us probably don't.  Reading those big works can be a lot of work!



#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter V


       
       Verbosity might be the cause of monster sized books, but usually the large size of many books is due to the sheer content.  Many of the reference books on my shelves have many pages, but there is a lot of information on them. On the other hand, very lengthy novels have story, characters, or some other aspects that are revealed with great detail to a reader.  Sometimes the length is warranted while other times I will be reading and wonder how much was really necessary.  Maybe if you are paid by the word as a writer you want to amass many words to the detriment of the reading experience.

       But what do I know?  I tend to avoid reading many of the thick books that I own.  I can attribute that to laziness perhaps, or lack of dedicated time.  Many long books might not be worth my time, but that is the case with so much out there that is available to read whether it be long or short.  

       One long book that  I've been reading off and on throughout my life is the Holy Bible.  It's one of those books you can keep reading over and over and keep discovering new things.  The Bible, specifically John 21:25, states that if everything Jesus did were written down, the world itself wouldn't have enough space for the books that would be written, implying the immensity of His deeds and ministry.   That would be a very voluminous volume!


        What long books are your favorites?   Which long books have you been unable to finish?   Do you prefer to read long books that are fiction or non-fiction?





Thursday, April 24, 2025

Utterly Understand Upsides ( #AtoZChallenge )


      Until the current part of my life things have usually been pretty smooth sailing.  Now things are comfortable and pleasant for me.  I'm in a good place and maybe there is a reason to it all...

 

#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter U

       
       Usually I'm a relatively laid back sort of person who goes with the flow.  What's the point of fighting against life and everything else around me.  Sure, I get my disgruntled states of mind, but I typically don't let that drag me down into a hopeless mire of pity and negativity.  Generally I'm a content person who tries not to complain to the point of irritation to others.  Don't ask my wife--just trust me.

        Others have better lives than mine I suppose.  I know others have more stuff, more opportunities, more advantages, or more of whatever happy successful people are expected to have.  But are they all happy?  It all comes down to outlook.  Attitude. Expectations.  We are what we think for the most part. At least that's how I see it.

         Compared to others, I might not seem to have much, but I've got what I need to survive.  Give me more.  Sure, I'll take it.  I'll also try to accept what I do have and whatever might come my way.  I utterly understand upsides but sometimes I can't seem to accept it.  Sometimes I want to be disgruntled and stay unhappy.  

         No, not a good idea.  Happiness is good for the health of body, mind, and soul.  We must choose happiness.  I utterly understand upsides.


     Do you try to maintain a happy facade even if you are down?  Do you prefer to have others commiserate with you in your down times?  What do you do to lift your spirits in your low moments?








Wednesday, April 23, 2025

Terlingua Texas Trip ( #AtoZChallenge )

 

      Too many years ago now it seems, a friend and I took a trip to Texas during which we took a side trip to the ghost town of Terlingua.  So much has changed since that visit, but still it lingers in my memory...


#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter T

      Texas held a lure for me back in the seventies after I had graduated from high school and started college.  My friend Vernon and I often took day drives around our home stomping grounds in Tennessee, but the call of the roads in distance places were calling out to us.  After seeing a family friend's home movies about his travels in West Texas and reading a story in the paper about the national park of Big Bend in Texas, I convinced Vernon that on his July vacation we should take a trip down there.  He was keen on the idea and we made that trip in 1974.
 
     This was one of my first major trips away from home without parents and family and it was a fine one. Big Bend certainly exceeded every expectation I had formed from what I had heard about it.  Such a spectacular park that was such a contrast from the Great Smokies that we were so used to. This was Vernon's first experience with desert terrain and my first in this portion of Texas.  We camped at three different locations in the park and hiked as much as we could in the desert heat.

      One day we decided to drive about a hundred miles west along the Rio Grande River to visit the border town of Ojinaga Mexico.  Once again, this was Vernon's first experience with going to Mexico and my first outside of Tijuana and its environs. 

     On the way to Ojinaga we made a stop near the national park western entrance to the "ghost town" of Terlingua.  Before making our trip, I had read about Terlingua during my research and decided that this should be a must see.  The concept of a ghost town intrigued me as well as it did Vernon, who was always interested in historical sites.  

      At that time, Terlingua was nowhere as near developed as it is now.  These days it is a tourist stop and a resort area.  Back then it was mostly abandoned.  We spent some time looking through crumbling ruins of buildings and taking a lot of photos.  A highlight was an old movie theater that no longer had a roof.  On the adobe walls someone had painted a vast mural of different people--movie goers perhaps--in comical poses and dressed in whimsical garb. 

      I suppose Vernon still has the photos he took. I don't recall if I have any in any of my old photo albums.  I stopped in Terlingua with my wife a few years back.  Things had changed a great deal.  We stopped at a store for snacks and drinks before moving on. I don't know if any of the old buildings still remain.  Maybe I'll go back one day, but probably not.  It's a pretty remote place.  You never know though.  Maybe someday in my future there could be another Terlingua Texas Trip.


     Have you been to Big Bend National Park?   Are you familiar with Terlingua Texas?   What are your favorite ingredients for chili?










     

      




Tuesday, April 22, 2025

Same Sad Song ( #AtoZChallenge & #BOTB Results )

 

     Signs posted around the shopping centers across from where I live tell people not to give money to the panhandlers.  The beggars used to be a bigger problem until they put up the signs.  Maybe that's what helped.  Or maybe people like me got tired of hearing the same sad songs...


#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter S



        Sometimes, as much as I want to, I just can't help everyone who asks me for money.  I don't know who these homeless are or why they are in the situation they are in, but just looking and listening I think they are mostly responsible for their plights.  But in Los Angeles they seem to be everywhere--shopping areas, parking lots, intersection medians, you name it.  I feel bad, but I also don't feel like doing anything about it.  I've been familiar with people like this for decades.  It's too much for me. 

       Since I'm on Social Security now my resources are limited too.  At least I'm not on the streets, but there for the Grace of God go I if my circumstances ever changed.  Thank God I have been blessed with what I have.  And I am part of a multitude who are now retired or living on limited means.  I've made better choices than those I see on the streets.  I suppose that is the case.  That's how it would appear to me, but maybe I have different standards.

        Still if I were to go across the street right now and wander a bit I'd surely be approached by someone asking for money.  In many cases they would be people I have encountered before--the regulars who come from the low income housing down the street.  Like the guy I encountered in front of King Taco yesterday--an apparently well-fed middle-aged Hispanic man in grungy clothes that I had seen him wearing in previous passings.  

       As I approached the restaurant entrance he held his hand out and said, "Can I have a quarter?" and when I said nothing he asked, "Will you buy me a taco?"  The same things he has said to  me in the past and has repeated to countless others.

       Part of me does feel bad about it, but then what can I do?  What can any of us do?  All these people singing the same sad song...

        
        Are you involved in any missions or programs to help the poor or homeless?   Have you ever had to ask for assistance in bad economic times?  Is homelessness a problem in your community?

  


 

   My Previous Battle was regionally themed with a showdown between the band Crowfoot as California music representatives up against Kiss's Ace Frehley with a New York song.  The Ace song was new to me, but not the artist.  I thought he did a fine job with his song, but Crowfoot is more my style and that's who I voted for.  And here's how it all went down:

 

Final Vote Tally

California     5 votes

New York     4 votes



Next Battle on May 1st!







Monday, April 21, 2025

Really Rough Roads ( #AtoZChallenge )

 

    Reality can come up and whomp you on the back of the head sometimes when you think things are going just as rosy as can be.  Fortunately, I've had some pretty smooth going in my life for the most part, but still there are those times when the roads get rough...


#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter R


      Roads are my favorite way to travel.  Best of all is when I'm driving.  That suits my wife most of the time as she would rather just sit back and enjoy the ride when on routes she doesn't know.  She doesn't like driving in heavy traffic although she often has to do that around Los Angeles where we live.  And when it comes to driving on mountain roads then just forget it.  She's terrified.

      A few years ago when we were returning from one of our trips back east, we had spent a night in Colorado Springs and got up the next day to drive to Montrose CO via a visit to Pike's Peak.  I noticed that after the Peak we could follow small roads through the old mining town of Cripple Creek and then a very small road to Hwy 50 which would take us to Montrose.

      After a brief visit to a casino in Cripple Creek where we had a mediocre lunch, we continued southward.  I noticed that there were no longer highway numbers, but a sign pointed to the next town I was hoping to find.  The road was now gravel with few other cars on it.  Soon I came to a divide with no markings other than one sign that pointed to a lake.  The map showed a lake, but no road beyond it.  My GPS seemed to be in a quandary. Fortunately a truck was coming out of the road to the lake and I called out to the driver.  He confirmed that the road he was coming from was to a lake with no outlet beyond that.  He informed us that the other road would take us to HWY 50 about 30 or 40 miles.  I was relieved as I continued down the appropriate gravel road.  

      My relief was soon turned to apprehension once again as the gravel road became more rutted and muddy and then began to skirt steep precipices.  The road narrowed to one lane much of the time so that I feared encountering another vehicle in the opposite direction.  Fortunately, the few encounters were at wider places in the road or areas where there were pullovers for camping or whatever.  My wife was in terror as we proceeded--no, she was probably more angry that I had dragged her on this road.

       Eventually we did reach HWY 50 and continued on to our day's destination without further bad highways.  I had to say that the gravel road was scary for a while, but it was one of the most beautiful drives we had seen on our travels. My wife conceded to that beauty, but I doubt that she'd ever want to go back on that route.  It was a really rough road.  

      What was the scariest drive you've ever taken?  Do you mind driving on perilous roads?  Would you tend to avoid an out of the way route in favor of taking the more advised highway?





       






Saturday, April 19, 2025

Quit Quiet Quitting ( #AtoZChallenge )

 


Quiet quitters make up at least 50% of the U.S. workforce -- probably more, Gallup finds.  That must have quite an impact on productivity.  Not a good sign for mental health either...





#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter Q




Quit Quiet Quitting

      Quiet quitting refers to the practice of staying at a job but essentially giving up on it.  You collect a paycheck while giving minimal effort or maybe not even actually working.  Sometimes it's the job, the work environment, or whatever it is going on with us.  We go through the  motions to look like we're there, but in spirit we are not.

      Quite a few years ago--the beginning of 1990 to be more precise--I was trying to settle down in  the Knoxville TN area after over a decade on the road.  It was a challenge for me to adapt to a stationary way of life.  

       After a few attempts at working some odd jobs to pay bills, a friend told me about an investment firm where he had been working. He thought I might have some luck at it even though he hadn't been very successful. I went to apply at a fancy office on the tenth floor of a nice bank building with a grand view of the Smokey Mountains.  I definitely could deal with the view.  They hired me on the spot and I began working immediately.

        From the start I felt that something shady was going on.  I was part of a small cold-calling staff to set up investment deals for the brokers.  The leads were old and tired and there was a lot of negative reactions with the people I was calling.  I started hearing rumors about the management and sales brokers.  Something not quite right was going on.

       After a couple weeks, paychecks were bouncing.  From my first check I would always run downstairs to the bank to cash mine, but not everyone else was so lucky.  Most of the people there quit, but a few like me stayed on despite the fact that the principles of the company and the head broker stopped coming. There was nothing for us to do, but the office was open.

      For a couple of days four of us were in the office waiting.  We'd heard that the FBI was investigating and that they might come, but they never did while we were there.  We waited, looked at the beautiful view, and talked.  We had already quit, but we were hoping for that last paycheck which I knew the others needed as much as I did.

      Finally, when Friday morning came, the secretary gave us checks. I rushed down to cash it and to my relief it cleared.  I went home.  I had quit quietly as had the other three who were left.

      Sometimes, quiet quitting isn't the right thing to do, but sometimes it's the only thing you can do.

       Have you ever quiet quit a job?   Do you sometimes feel like just quiet quitting life?  What do you need in life to keep enthused about what you are doing?












Friday, April 18, 2025

Please Pray Positive ( #AtoZChallenge )

 

      Positivity is something this world needs more of.  When I stop to weigh the consequences of my words, thoughts, or actions I usually try to reflect whether or not my decisions will have positive consequences.  At least that's what I hope I do...




#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter P




     Prayers and thoughts are something often offered up after some tragic situation.  Of course we're all thinking about those times, but I'm not sure what the point of offering those mental exercises.  However, the prayers are what seem to set some people off.  Prayers are typically pretty innocuous and usually well intended.  Our prayers might be heartfelt exhortations to God or internal contemplations to help us make sense of a bad thing.  I don't know why prayers should upset anyone in the rational world, but I think some people just need to rail against whatever positivity might be out there.

      If you don't like the prayers of others then just be quiet about it.  What is the point of the complaint?  And if you are praying, please pray positively. 


       Have you ever prayed for something bad to happen to someone else?  Do the prayers of others bother you?   Should we announce our prayers to the world?










Thursday, April 17, 2025

Over Or Out ( #AtoZChallenge )

 


     Over and out.  I've heard that in so many movies where people are communicating over a radio.  You know the scenes--police cars, airplanes, anywhere that might require that sort of communication.  Over and out...




#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter O



       Oh no!  According to some, saying "over and out" is not correct.  It makes total sense to me. While you're talking with someone each says "over" when their part is done, right?  Then when you want to have the final say you declare, "Over and out" and that is the end of it.  Sounds good to me.

      I don't like a hanging conversation where you don't know that anyone had the last word or not.  Most of the time it probably doesn't matter.  But then, there are those times when questions linger, doubts cloud our understanding of what did actually go down and what everyone was left thinking about it.

     Once I was in a relationship for a long time and then it came to a point where the other person declared to me one day, "We have nothing more to talk about."

      For a while we did continue to talk as the relationship began disintegrating.  I began to realize that we really didn't have anything else to talk about.  Then it was all over.  Done.  We never spoke.  Again.

       I kind of wish that when that person had uttered those harsh words about having nothing more to say to one another that they would have simply said, "Over and out."  Or out.  Either way it would have been the end.


      Did you ever have a CB radio in your vehicle?  Would you prefer a close relationship to end abruptly rather than lingering in unhappiness?  What is something you wish you had never said to someone else?







Wednesday, April 16, 2025

Nothing Nullifies Nobody ( #AtoZChallenge )

 

  Nothing nullifies nobody is the phrase that came into my head when I thought of the letter 'N'.  No reason maybe, but I think it has something to do with something I must have been thinking at the time.  I'll explain...


#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter N

       Not all that long ago there was all this talk about "canceling" people for this or that reason.  There were a few times that I got kicked off Twitter or warned by Facebook for this or that I had said, but I always managed to get back on.  My online reach seems to have diminished since then, but then maybe online activity in the realm of "people I knew" through internet contact have stopped being online as much as they used to.  That's what I've done.  I don't know if there are algorithms that affect me or not.  Or if it really matters for the time being.

      Nowadays it seems like we can never tell what is really going on or what is real for that matter.  It seems to me that the internet should make research and finding true answers more easy to accomplish.  No library hassles or feet on the street searches for data. Information should all be at our fingertips as long as we have an internet connection.  Right?  Seems like it to me and yet I find so much that is untrue or strongly biased that it becomes difficult to know what to believe other than applying my own knowledge and logic.

       Maybe it's always been like that to some degree.  Maybe we would be better off with nothing. After all, nothing nullifies nobody.


       Have you ever felt "canceled" on the internet?   Do you strive for damage control when you see something on the internet that misrepresents you or something else that you feel strongly about?  Would you prefer to start at nothing and learn as you go?






 

 






Tuesday, April 15, 2025

Music Molds Me ( #AtoZChallenge & #BOTB )

      Music molds me.  It has molded me into who I am throughout my life and continues to shape and form me now.  Music is the potter's hands, my mind is the clay...


#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter M


    Music has guided me and music follows me.  Music is all around me and has been since my earliest memories. Part of my love of music keeps me doing a bi-monthly blogging event.  That's what I'll be doing in this post for the letter "M"...


Battle of the Bands


 

        Battle of the Bands is the blogging event started by Far Away Series and now hosted by StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands.   This event happens each month on the 15th and on some there is also a Battle on the 1st of the month.  My blog is one of those with a second Battle excepting over these summer months.   The premise is simple:  Listen to the songs presented below and then in the comments vote for your favorite and tell us why you liked it.  Then visit the links listed near the bottom of this post for more Battle action.


It's West Coast Vs East Coast!  Which song do you prefer?



Time to Vote!

         East?  West?  Which song do you like best?   It's time for a Battle of the Bands!  You're supposed to vote on one of these songs.  Which one do you prefer?  Battles are no fun without you the reader participating.
    Hopefully you have an opinion of some kind.  You don't have to know about music to have an opinion since it all comes down to your own personal taste.

        Please vote on your favorite by letting us know your choice in the comment section and tell us why you prefer the version you chose. Then after you've finished here, please visit the other blogs listed below who may or may not be participating this time around. And if you've put up your own BOTB contest let us know that as well so we can vote on yours. I don't know if anyone else will be doing a Battle this time around, but you can still check out these sites.


Here are some other places where you might find BOTB posts:

 StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands
 
'Curious as a Cathy'

Sound of One Hand Typing

Jingle, Jangle, Jungle 





Results on Tuesday April 22nd