An Explanation about my Monday Post:
After an unexpectedly overwhelming response to my last post It's Not All About You: Self-Centered Blogging, I thought I might clarify some of what I was referring to and dispel any concern that any of you were the target of my "rant". Any of you who left a comment on that post or any of my posts in the past are not who I was referring to.
Even if you've never left a comment on my site, but do have sites where you regularly or even just occasionally leave comments, I wasn't talking about you either. I am talking about those bloggers who pontificate their erudition from pedestals where they are almost untouchable to the rest of us who from their viewpoints are mere struggling amateurs or plain silly bloggers of no import to them.
Actually, I could name names, but I wouldn't do that. It could be that I'm misinterpreting those bloggers or I might start a conflict steeped in animosity and that's not something I want to do because that's not who I am.
And for those who thought that I was upset about something that had happened recently, no such thing. As some of you may recall, on Mondays I often write about topics pertaining to blogging. On Sunday evening I wanted to come up with a quick something and composed what I thought would be a relatively insignificant post about a topic that used to concern me in my earlier blogging days, but not so much of late.
This is nothing that I obsess over or that bothers me to any great extent. It's just something I remember from back when I was a newer blogger trying to understand how it all worked.
Judging from your comments, many of you can relate to this. In fact, Alana from Writercize directed me to a similarly themed post at Word Nerd Speaks. From the reactions in her comment section it's pretty obvious that commenting is a hot button issue. If you want more on this topic go over and check out that post and read the comments--they're pretty intense.
In any case, I thank you again for responding so ardently on my Monday post. One thing it did for me was expand my realization that responding to comments directly via email is tough. I tried to get back to all of you that I could and if I didn't get to you please understand that it's not you, but it's me having a hard time keeping up with things. I'm still trying to decide how best to address responding to comments.
A Sad Day in Blogtown:
Say it ain't so Joe--or I should say Stephen T. McCarthy. My dear blogging buddy Stephen has announced on his blog Stuffs that he's going out of business on his blog. His love of blogging has fizzled--so he says. I hope it's just a phase. Take a break, my friend, and come back when you're ready, but not too long mind you. Maybe some of you reading this can stop by Stephen's blog and say hello and maybe a word of encouragement.
I Really Want to Say Something About This:
In September of 2010 my blog buddy Larry Cavanaugh of DiscConnected was joined by me to witness an incredible concert near my house. The show was by prog-rock band Spock's Beard. I wrote about our meeting here and Larry gave a rundown about the show on his blog post. Amazingly enough, the concert was recorded and filmed and has been released in a deluxe 2 CD set with a bonus DVD of the concert itself. Fans of prog-rock and darn good intricate rock period would do well to check out Spock's Beard: The X Tour Limited Edition Deluxe Version. It's nothing short of outstanding. Read Larry's recent review.
Voting Now Open for A to Z Video Contest:
We ended up with an even dozen entries and they're all winners in my book. I want to thank all of those who sent in videos. Now it's up to you readers out there. Please go to the "Vote for Your Favorite A to Z Video Here" tab and enter your vote. Links to all of the videos will be found on that page. Watch and enjoy them and then vote for one.
And now for your listening pleasure: A sample of the Spock's Beard X Tour Live Concert DVD
This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme
My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Monday, March 12, 2012
It's Not All About You: Self-Centered Blogging
The biggest problem with this post is that it probably won't be read by the bloggers that it's directed toward. And if in the improbable circumstance that one of these bloggers does read this post, they probably won't recognize the fact that I'm talking about them.
If you're visiting my blog today, and especially if you're leaving a comment, you are a participant in an interaction, the kind of exchange that builds blog relationships and establishes a line of communication from which we could potentially learn something. And if I know that you have stopped by to visit--that is by leaving a comment--I will more than likely be by your blog eventually and leave my comment there. If I don't then shame on me and I apologize.
The way I see it blogging is a two way street--an exchange of ideas. You show me your support and I'll make an effort to support you. If I come visit your online space then I'd like for you to show me some attention too. Reciprocity is the name of the blogging game and most of my readers know that already.
You probably know who I'm talking about.
It's not the blogging superstars who have valuable content that can't be missed. Everybody is visiting them and those big time bloggers not only might not be able to make reciprocal visits to bloggers who leave comments on their sites, but they might not even be able to respond to all of the comments they receive.
And I'm not talking the mega-best-selling authors or celebrity bloggers who will get adulation from their fans no matter what. It's unlikely that I would leave a comment to get lost in the hundreds of comments they receive and those who do probably aren't expecting any acknowledgement to any comment they might leave.
Who I'm talking about is the bloggers with relatively small followings. These bloggers might be posting excerpts of their works or expounding ideas from behind their bloggy podiums thinking they have tons of readers waiting for their next words. I say to those bloggers: Look at your comment section. Do you have any? And if so are you responding to them?
Many times I have come upon a blogger who seems interesting and who has decent content on a blog that seems to be consistently published. I will often leave a comment in order to engage with that blogger and receive either no response or a fairly inadequate brush-off. Then I'll note that they often have very little in the way of followers or comments on any posts. I understand why.
Some bloggers have busy schedules--I realize that. But still that's a rather lame excuse since many interactive bloggers also are busy. Some may be shy or may not understand how blog operation works. I would imagine there are bloggers with that handicap and I hope they are working on that. I'll be glad to offer help if they would like.
However, there remain those bloggers who maintain an arrogance that suggests that they think they are more important than other bloggers. Well, I'm here to tell you that you are not a center of the blogosphere. It's not all about you. You most likely have very few adulating fans, if any at all, who anxiously await your next utterance of pure genius.
That's what I want to tell you. But I'm sure you're not listening.
Have you come upon any self-centered bloggers? Do you ever try to offer suggestions in comments to help bloggers who may not know how to blog properly? Why do you think some bloggers consistently offer fairly decent content, but have no interactions with others?
And now for something lighter. Another video entry came in before closing. This one is from Jocelyn Rish.
Thank you Jocelyn and all of the other entrants. Be watching for the voting poll in the next few days.
If you're visiting my blog today, and especially if you're leaving a comment, you are a participant in an interaction, the kind of exchange that builds blog relationships and establishes a line of communication from which we could potentially learn something. And if I know that you have stopped by to visit--that is by leaving a comment--I will more than likely be by your blog eventually and leave my comment there. If I don't then shame on me and I apologize.
The way I see it blogging is a two way street--an exchange of ideas. You show me your support and I'll make an effort to support you. If I come visit your online space then I'd like for you to show me some attention too. Reciprocity is the name of the blogging game and most of my readers know that already.
You probably know who I'm talking about.
It's not the blogging superstars who have valuable content that can't be missed. Everybody is visiting them and those big time bloggers not only might not be able to make reciprocal visits to bloggers who leave comments on their sites, but they might not even be able to respond to all of the comments they receive.
And I'm not talking the mega-best-selling authors or celebrity bloggers who will get adulation from their fans no matter what. It's unlikely that I would leave a comment to get lost in the hundreds of comments they receive and those who do probably aren't expecting any acknowledgement to any comment they might leave.
Who I'm talking about is the bloggers with relatively small followings. These bloggers might be posting excerpts of their works or expounding ideas from behind their bloggy podiums thinking they have tons of readers waiting for their next words. I say to those bloggers: Look at your comment section. Do you have any? And if so are you responding to them?
Many times I have come upon a blogger who seems interesting and who has decent content on a blog that seems to be consistently published. I will often leave a comment in order to engage with that blogger and receive either no response or a fairly inadequate brush-off. Then I'll note that they often have very little in the way of followers or comments on any posts. I understand why.
Some bloggers have busy schedules--I realize that. But still that's a rather lame excuse since many interactive bloggers also are busy. Some may be shy or may not understand how blog operation works. I would imagine there are bloggers with that handicap and I hope they are working on that. I'll be glad to offer help if they would like.
However, there remain those bloggers who maintain an arrogance that suggests that they think they are more important than other bloggers. Well, I'm here to tell you that you are not a center of the blogosphere. It's not all about you. You most likely have very few adulating fans, if any at all, who anxiously await your next utterance of pure genius.
That's what I want to tell you. But I'm sure you're not listening.
Have you come upon any self-centered bloggers? Do you ever try to offer suggestions in comments to help bloggers who may not know how to blog properly? Why do you think some bloggers consistently offer fairly decent content, but have no interactions with others?
And now for something lighter. Another video entry came in before closing. This one is from Jocelyn Rish.
Thank you Jocelyn and all of the other entrants. Be watching for the voting poll in the next few days.
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Friday, March 9, 2012
Comment Conundrum and More Comments About My Conundrum Post
Comments are one of the driving forces that motivates us as bloggers. It's nice to get the encouragement that we usually find when we open up our surprise package that pours out sweet words from the readers. This is something that makes me look forward to writing the next blog post.
Even when the words aren't so adulating they can reassure me that someone is listening and often even be instructional and informative. My favorite comment situation is when a dialogue opens up. A reader who has commented has chosen to follow the conversation by requesting email notification of follow-up comments and they may come back to respond to my response or say something about another person's comments. Alas, this seems to be no longer the case for some of us.
Those of us on Blogger who use the pop-up window no longer have the email notification option so far as I can tell. Now if the owner of the blog where I have left a comment decides to respond, I will probably not see that response since as I rule I don't keep going back to monitor the comment thread once I have left. It's impractical to do if you're trying to follow many blogs. Now I leave my comment and that's where my conversation usually ends.
Lately I haven't been leaving comment responses like I used to because I figure that like in my case others don't return if they're not notified. Odds are that most commenters weren't checking that notification box and never saw my responses, but still the option to have the possibility of dialogue was nice. I still read my comments and in a few cases I do respond by e-mail, but that's not always an option and I don't always have the extra time that direct contact takes. I'm not sure what to do.
The notification option is still available on those blogs that have the embedded comment box. I know that some have said they don't like this system. For me the embedded comment box loads much more easily than it used to and I don't have much problem with it aside from Word Verification and even that I've just about mastered. Should I switch back to the embedded comment box? Would that deter you from commenting?
I love comments. Those who follow Tossing It Out will probably recall my series on the comments I received on a post at the beginning of this year. I was so inspired by the comments I received on the post Where Am I Now Anyway? that I have been doing a series memorializing those comments and as a consequence that post has been receiving additional comments. Here are the next two comments after where I last left off:
kirstenlopresti said...I follow what you are saying - I think.
January 4, 2012 10:12 AM
Thanks Kirsten! I know I was rambling in a confusing way. At least you took the time to let me know you visited and that means a lot to me. Even if I did confuse you then that gave me a certain sense of achievement because I was trying a mind-bending experiment. Your comment is a compliment--I think.
alexia said...That's a cool way to look at things! I get what you mean.
As for me, I'm pretty happy with where I've been, am at and am going with my writing.
As for me, I'm pretty happy with where I've been, am at and am going with my writing.
January 4, 2012 10:23 AM
Ah, Alexia! Cool--that's what I want to be and you confidently assert your understanding of what I've said. I find your positive reply uplifting and optimistic. I makes me want to move forward as well.Related articles
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