This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.
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Monday, August 23, 2010

Blog Boggled: Comment Conversation

 


E-Mail Update

          The first phase of e-mail management is complete.   Last week's count was 267, and at the time of this record I'd culled it down to 12.   The New e-mail folder should be at around this number at some point each day and rarely be over 100 before emails get deleted or dispersed into folders.  Currently I have 36 folders.  These will eventually be consolidated with others or deleted as I sort through content.  Now as long as I tend to the daily incoming e-mail in a timely manner, I should no longer have the confusing mess of new e-mail to wade through.

                           More About Commenting

            Last Monday I discussed the concept of quality commenting, that is leaving a comment that has content that relates to the blog post.  Today I want to take it a step further and look at commenting as a form of conversation, discussion, and relationship building. 

            Fortunately, Alex J. Cavanaugh's recent post, Blogging Idiosyncrasies Part Two, begins a recent discussion on this topic.  If you haven't read this post yet, and the comments, I encourage you to do so as I am adding my views to that portion of that discussion that relates to commenting.  And there was a lot of input from Alex's readers as to how they felt about the subject of comment.

              The Blog Conversation

            My take on commenting is that it allows a blog reader to interact with the writer and the other readers.   A truly inspiring and interesting comment section has comments of substance and questions when more information is desired; heartfelt replies that either reaffirm the commenter or address the commenter's questions or concerns; acknowledgment from the commenter that the response was received if that response entailed further action like an answer or clarification; and in some instances, input from other commenters.  In other words, an exciting comment section that exudes vitality and community would be like an on-line discussion forum.

           Impractical and idealistic?  Of course!  Last week we already noted that most of us don't have the time for many quality comments, let alone an ongoing discussion.  However, there are some cases when it does happen and it is quite exciting.  I've seen it on my own Thursday Debate Day topics where an actual ongoing debate occurs among some participants of the comment section.  I find it to be educational and stimulating.

          A couple of other sites where I have seen this are Stephen T. McCarthy's FFFF Blog and LC's Back in the USSR.  They often deal with controversial and debate-worthy topics that create a dialogue.  I have seen many other similar sites in the blogosphere, but it's that time factor that gets in the way of following many of these.  Too many fun blogs and not enough play time. 

            Tracking Comments and Replies
 
           But if we are talking just simple dialogue, I do think this can be accomplished even if you are hitting a multitude of blogs each day.  First of all, when you leave a comment, you have the option to "subscribe" to that post so that you will receive an email notification if the owner replies or each time someone else leaves a comment.  It's kind of a nice feeling when you get that note from the blog owner that they got your comment. I usually race through any other comments, but on rare occasions another commenter responds to what I have said and it's nice to know that too, whether it be positive or negative.  It's all a relationship building experience.  I have discovered many wonderful blogs through the comments. Yes, the emails can really pile up, but I can quickly delete them as well.

          As a blog owner, I just have faith that the commenters have subscribed to the post because I almost always reply to comments in my comment section.  I mostly reply in blocks because it just seems more efficient.   Some bloggers like Just Jemi reply one on one, which is a much more personal approach I think. Plus it doubles her comments (although even without her replies she's getting more comments than I usually get) and it sure makes her comment section look impressive.  Jemi's connecting with her readers surely endears her to we who comment on her blog.

             Replying By E-mail

        Some blog owners reply directly by email, which is a nice personal contact, or better yet, reply in the comment section and with a personal email.  I do direct emails in very special instances where my reply is more personal, but I still prefer to share my reply with all readers.  

           Offsite Blog Comments

        Other bloggers may go to the commenter's site to leave a reply.  I don't like to use this because I feel like it's stepping out of the discussion realm to reply in a different discussion realm where the reply lacks context for most of the readers.  Most readers probably will not follow the interblog exchange and a part of the conversation is lost.

                             What's Your Opinion?

        Do you want a blog conversation?  Do you like a blog conversation?  Do you "subscribe" to a blog where you have left a comment so you will be emailed if you get a reply?   Do you read many of the other comments?   Do you reply to the comments that you receive on your blog?  Do you prefer receiving a one on one personal reply?     Do you reply individually or in a block of personally designated replies?  Is there an advantage to replying by e-mail or on the commenter's site?

                                      METRO TOUR

          This past Saturday I mentioned that I was going to be taking a tour given by the Los Angeles Metropolitan Transportation Authority.  The tour was interesting and will be the inspiration of next week's blog topics on Tossing It Out.   I will look forward to hearing from some of you on the subject of public transportation.        
          

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Saturdays Are Fatter Days

        If I ate as much as I usually do on Saturday I'd be absolutely huge--A Blob with a Blog would be my new blog title.  Most Saturdays I get up and have a breakfast--well that's normal enough since I usually do that.  Typically I'll have a few biscuits and some coffee.  It's nothing extraordinary.

          At midday, my wife and I usually go for a sit down meal at a restaurant.  I almost always clean my plate since I've become so conscious of the starving people in China or wherever it is they are starving.  It's that guilt factor.  I cannot bear to see my leftover food carried from the table to be thrown in the trash.  I wish I could send the food that I waste to the starving children.  Since I can't, I just wish the restaurant would give me smaller portions and charge me less.

           My wife and I have tried the sharing route a few times.  That doesn't work that well though.  Our food tastes are very different.  So we end up with two complete meals which really have too much food for one person on each.  To be a good boy, I clean my plate as best as I can and then waddle out of the restaurant and head home, where I immediately take a nap since I am now so full and lethargic.

           Yes, Saturdays for me are the fatter days when it comes to food.  Maybe that's why I like to do my awards on Saturdays as well.  And this Saturday is a fatter awards day than usual.   Here are some of the awards I received this past week from some wonderful blogger friends:



Awards



I received another Versatile Blogger Award from Jemi at Just Jemi
Well, it was a choice between that one and the Who's Awesome Award, but I already have them both.  So what the heck!  Gee thanks, Jemi, you are so doggone awesome and versatile in you thoughtfulness.

Then there's the
Your Blog Rocks! Award






          From Yvonne at Welcome to My World of Poetry comes the "Your Blog Rocks!" award.  Well I think Yvonne's blog rocks so here's back at ya Yvonne.  I never like to miss an opportunity to say what a wonderful and thoughtful blogger Yvonne is.  I've been doing a lot of music list posts lately --in case you haven't noticed-- and Yvonne's not only been there for every one of them, but she also blows us away with the clever way she posts her fine lists in poetry.  If you are not a fan of Yvonne's poetry blog, you need to get yourself over there right now and check it out.


Wait! There's Another Award!

              This week I discovered Olivia at That Rebel With a Blog, who in turn bestowed upon me the One Lovely Blog Award.  Now ain't that just too cool!  You never know what you're going to find when you click on a link sometimes and that's how I found Olivia's blog and now you too can click on the link and see what I'm talking about.   Besides, she's in Northern Georgia which is just a pig squeal and a holler down the road from my old East Tennessee home.   Thanks, Olivia, for thinking about me.



          Now as most of you know there are rules that get attached to these awards and they are supposed to get passed on and all that.   And as many of you know I've been indicating that changes are coming to this blog.  Well me just keeping these awards and not passing them on for now is no big change--I've done it before--but that's what I'm going to do today.   Maybe later when I need some blog topic I'll get back to passing them on, but please don't be offended if this award stops here for now.  Love you all and hope you know that.

        Speaking of those changes some of you might be saying, "I didn't see any changes".  Well there were some, but so far they are fairly imperceptible.  I'm slowly making minor changes here and there and will be doing some future posts about these changes.  The biggest jolting change I need to make is in my work habits--that is what has been interfering with the changes I'm planning for this blog.  More changes are still coming.

          And more fun is coming as well.  It's not too late to come up with your 10 HOT LATIN FAVORITE ALBUMS that we'll be posting this Monday July 5.   See my post on this past Tuesday for more info or check the Linky list at the top of the page.    Also coming on Monday July 19th is THE SOUNDTRACK OF YOUR LIFE which I talked about on my Friday post. That Linky list will show up this week.  And that will probably be the end of the lists for a while.  

            A lot of you are probably saying "YaaaaY!   Well here's another thing you can say "Yay!" about--this is the end of this post.   Yaaaay!

             Have a Fantastic Fourth of July weekend!