This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.
Showing posts with label creative writing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label creative writing. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 4, 2023

Superficial Intelligence ( #IWSG )

 

     If computers ever take over the realms of creativity then hopefully they will provide programs that will just inject info into our brains so that we don't have to actually read what the machines write--the machines will just tell us what we would have read if we had actually read it.  Why bother to think if someone or something else can think for us?  I don't think I like where this could go...


The Insecure Writer's Support Group


Join us on the first Wednesday of each month in Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writer's Support Group--a forum of writers who gather to talk about writing and the writer's life. For a complete list of participants visit Alex's Blog
     The co-hosts for the October 4 posting of the IWSG are Natalie Aguirre, Kim Lajevardi, Debs Carey, Gwen Gardner, Patricia Josephine, and Rebecca Douglass!






October 4 question: The topic of AI writing has been heavily debated across the world. According to various sources, generative AI will assist writers, not replace them. What are your thoughts?


          I don't know much about this topic of AI and considering my computer limitations of this past year I'm not sure I care too much.  There are advantages to AI as far creativity I would say, but once the human component of creativity has been replaced by AI would the various arts using it tend to become stale and highly formulaic?  Then again, maybe that has happened to a great extent with human writers.  A great many of the books, films, or other media that become a series have to rely on formula and sameness because that's probably what the audience wants.
 
         But who am I to say since I don't have enough experience with anything in regard to AI?  If the future means reading a lot of stories, seeing a lot of films, or hearing a lot of music that basically sound like something else we've already experienced repeatedly then is that really a good thing?  Or has this happened already?

          I'll admit that I'm pretty much in the dark about AI, but maybe we all are.  Maybe only AI knows for sure...


         If you haven't done so already, I hope you'll stop by to vote on my current Battle of the Bands.  This one has songs that you probably know and like.  And I don't think they were composed using AI, but I couldn't confirm that.











Wednesday, July 7, 2021

Why Quit When I Can Quit ( #IWSG )

 

      I'm still here, but I'm just not writing or blogging much at the present time.  It's partly due to being busy with other things and partly due to lack of initiative to blog.  Also I've got a big summer trip coming up and this year I don't want to think about being online much during that time.   But I'm here.  Hope you're having a wonderful summer....


The Insecure Writer's Support Group


Join us on the first Wednesday of each month in Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writer's Support Group--a forum of writers who gather to talk about writing and the writer's life. For a complete list of participants visit Alex's Blog


The co-hosts for the July 7 posting of the IWSG are Pat Garcia, Victoria Marie Lees, and Louise – Fundy Blue!


July 7 question - What would make you quit writing?



Quit Writing?  What Would I Do That For?

          What would make me quit writing?   Considering my current blog hiatus one might think "Summer"--but no, I'm still writing a little bit.  This is just a break.

            Becoming physically or mentally incapable of writing would likely put an end to my writing, but that would have to be some serious debilitating issue that I hope would never happen.  Along those lines would be any other problem that would permanently divert me from writing, but I'm not sure I want to spend my imagination going down that route.

           As long as I can write then I will write.  I will write something. 

           Hopefully I will return here in August for another IWSG post and write some more.

           Be well and be as happy as you can...


Would you quit writing?






Wednesday, September 4, 2019

No Place Like--Where? ( #ISWG )


I dream of places, people, things and situations.  I dream by day and I dream by night.  If my dreams turned into shiny gold coins then I'd be a wealthy man.  It could happen you know...
                                                                   Arlee Bird

An East Tennessee Lake scene


The Insecure Writer's Support Group

Join us on the first Wednesday of each month in Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writer's Support Group--a forum of writers who gather to talk about writing and the writer's life. For a complete list of participants visit Alex's Blog





The co-hosts for the September 4 posting of the IWSG are Gwen Gardner,Doreen McGettigan, Tyrean Martinson, Chemist Ken, and Cathrina Constantiner!


September 4 question - If you could pick one place in the world to sit and write your next story, where would it be and why?

          Since I consider myself to be a logical person, the answer to this is easy:  If I were to sit down to write I'd prefer to be right here at home at my computer.  When I'm away from home I get so distracted by my surroundings or people I'm with I might never do any writing.  

         If I were to take a retreat for the sole purpose of writing, I'd want a mountain setting like my old home East Tennessee or maybe somewhere in western Virginia--specifically Marion.  But that could be very expensive unless I outright moved there.  So that dream is impractical in my real world.  

        Besides, near my desk and in my home I have my office and all its stuff and my house and all my life stuff.  To be unfettered by such and financially free to travel to an unlimited extent and support my away-from-home lifestyle in a comfortable way, I might want to have a summer place in upstate New York or maybe somewhere in New England.  

           If I were to stay in the western half of the U.S. I might opt for someplace like Sedona Arizona or Colorado Springs.  But there go the distractions.  With so many beautiful places to see in such places I can see the advantage of just staying at home in my urbanity from which I'd prefer not be in traffic and just stay home for the most part.

         ...but wait a minute.  That's what I do all the time.  So why the heck am I not writing my next story?  

            Oh look, there's a squirrel...

        Are you more distracted at home or away?   What fires your imagination most?   Where do you feel more compelled to write?

         If you haven't voted on my current Battle of the Bands I'd be pleased if you'd take a moment to visit here and vote for your favorite song version.   Thanks in advance!







Thursday, November 15, 2018

Once Upon a Time (Battle of the Bobs) (#BOTB)


     Knowing how to begin and where to begin is sometimes the biggest challenge in story-telling.  That is the point where readers will often decide whether a story is worth their time.

How Do I Begin?

         If you're doing NaNoWriMo this year then you are likely not reading this post of mine, but many who do read are writers so you still might have the concern of how to start a piece.  "Once upon a time" is an oft-used standard approach--trite perhaps--but it can be effective either verbatim or in some variant.  A story has to begin somewhere to fit within the parameters of a readers expectations and economic use of words.

        Then again I suppose any story can begin in any place that seems appropriate.  It depends on what a writer is trying to achieve and what is the most important information to give readers in order to achieve said purpose.

           "Once upon a time"?--it's a vague reference that begs continuance.

           Midway into NaNo month I hope participants are meeting goals while being productive and having fun.  But let's take a moment to listen to some music.  It's the "Battle of the Bobs"  and they both have a story to tell in their own personal styles.  Enjoy...


Battle of the Bands

      Battle of the Bands is the blogging event started by Far Away Series and now hosted by StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands.   This event happens each month on the 15th and on some blogs there is also a Battle on the 1st of the month.  My blog is one of those with a second Battle on the 1st of the month.   The premise is simple:  Listen to the songs presented below and then in the comments vote for your favorite and tell us why you liked it.  Then visit the links listed near the bottom of this post for more Battle action.


Once Upon a Time

          This pop standard comes from the 1962 musical All American.  I don't know the musical, but I know the song well.  It has been recorded by numerous artists over the years.  It is a very slow but beautiful song.  I hope you'll give it a chance as it tells a wistful, but familiar story.  In this current Battle I offer two versions by two Bobs--Bob Darin and Bob Dylan.  These live performances were recorded fifty years apart.  The story never changes...



Bob Darin   "Once Upon a Time"   (1966)




Bob Dylan   "Once Upon a Time"  (2016)





Time to Vote!

       
Now that you've heard the beginning of my blog post story, it's time for an ending where you provide an outcome with your votes.  What's your favorite between these two choices? Which song version do you like best? You don't have to know about music to have an opinion since it all comes down to your own personal taste.

         Please vote on your favorite by letting us know your choice in the comment section and tell us why you prefer the version you chose. Then after you've finished here, please visit the other blogs listed below who may or may not be participating this time around. And if you've put up your own BOTB contest let us know that as well so we can vote on yours.

Here are some other places where you might find BOTB posts:

 StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands

  'MIKE'S RAMBLINGS'

'Curious as a Cathy'

Sound of One Hand Typing

Angel's Bark  


Debbie Doglady's Den

Jingle, Jangle, Jungle 


Cherdo on the Flipside



Winner of this Battle Announced Wednesday November 21st

         Hope you take the time to listen and enjoy these song stylings.  Maybe you'll want to listen when you are wanting to get in a mellow mood.  I can understand if you might get bored, but really--this is a beautiful song and each rendition is special.  May the best Bob win.

          Do you find it difficult to write good openings to stories or other written works?   Are you more challenged by how to begin or how to finish?    Do you like hearing Bob Dylan sing pop standards?












Wednesday, April 5, 2017

Devoting Time (#IWSG) (#AtoZChallenge)

       Success depends partly on the time we are willing to devote to an endeavor.  Talent is important but if no effort is expended and no time invested then that talent will likely lie fallow.


 Join us on the first Wednesday of each month in Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writer's Support Group--a forum of writers who gather to talk about writing and the writer's life. For a complete list of participants visit Alex's Blog


Days to Decades

        Each day was an adventure and the days seemed to last for weeks.  Childhood was like that.  I had the time and the world was mine if was willing to take advantage of it.  But those days turned into decades as first my college years passed, then living to work and working to live life to the fullest. I had time to write, and often did, but there was no particular aim to it all.  Writing was mostly relegated to something of the nature of a hobby.

          Eventually life was mostly work and family. I was fortunate to be working jobs that I enjoyed doing and that allowed me to still be very involved with my kids.  Sometimes there was writing involved, but mostly that was when some nagging idea insisted that I write it down.  So I did.  I wrote in spiral composition books at night after the kids were in bed or during a spare moment at work.  When the compulsion subsided, my writing books were tucked away for some later use.

          Writing has always been in the background of my life--rarely taking center stage.  I probably spent more time thinking about what I might write someday than actually writing.   But sometimes I did write.   And now I need to continue to write.  I need to consider devoting more time to writing.  Thankfully I have blogging as one outlet and writing blog posts has been a bit of writing salvation to me.

          Days fly by quickly as what I had planned on writing today has been postponed until tomorrow. Or someday.  Yes, the days are flying by faster than I would have ever imagined when I was that kid with all the time in the world on his hands.  Then I could wait.  Now I'm not sure waiting is what I should be doing.  After all, the days are turning into decades and one day those decades will amount to a lifetime.  When I was a kid a lifetime was forever.   Now I know the truth.

           Are you fulfilling your writing dreams?   What is your current favorite way to release your inner creative self?   Do you devote time to writing as much as you'd like to?  



Wednesday, October 5, 2016

My Sugar Cookies Are Done (#IWSG)


If you're not feeling insecure then you're either dead, you're drunk, or you're lying to yourself.  


Join us on the first Wednesday of each month in Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writer's Support Group--a forum of writers who gather to talk about writing and the writer's life. For a complete list of participants visit Alex's Blog



When do you know your story is ready?
          
         Your story is ready when you've received payment for it and the check is deposited in the bank. That's enough confirmation for me in a practical sense.  But I guess there is more to it than that since you've got to feel confident enough to submit the story in the first place.  You, the writer, have to check it out to see if the story is ready for consumption.

          Let me offer an analogy taken from real life.  Today I decided to make a batch of sugar cookies with an M&M candy stuck in the middle of each one.  I was in the mood for some cookies so I made some.  I have a problem with my oven where apparently the thermostat isn't working or something so I have to carefully watch anything I cook in it.  Yeah, I guess I should get it fixed, but I've gotten used to it.  

          It's not difficult baking stuff, but I do have to cook with care.  First, like when writing something, my past experience gets me started with a knowledge of what to expect.  While whatever is in the oven is baking I use the smell test to make sure it all turns out right.  The story has to smell right in the first place or it's not going to be especially successful.

          While the cookies are baking I have to peek in on them periodically to make sure they look okay.  When I write, I edit as I go to some extent--that's the eyeball test in a sense.  Then when the cookie edges are lightly browned and the general appearance looks ready, I pull the cookies out of the oven to let them cool.   That's the story too:  If it looks good in every respect I can put the story aside for awhile to let it cool off a bit.

          Finally, I'll go back and eat a couple cookies.  That's like the definitive read and edit when I decide whether or not the story is worth serving to others.  And that's the analogy of cookies and stories.   It makes no sense perhaps, but then again I'm just cranking out a blog post and just saying any old silly thing.

          I know this is a stupid analogy, but dammit I've got cookies and I don't have to read any story right now.  So eat your heart out--I'm going to eat my cookies.  And maybe I'll read a book or watch television or something.   And eat a few cookies with a glass of milk.   Later I'll write a story.  Or maybe just another blog post.


Battle of the Bands Vote


    

       There's still time to vote on my current Battle of the Bands competition.  It's a tight race between two versions of a song I originally heard in the 1988 Harrison Ford film Frantic.  I think it's a darn good song with some tasty guitar work in the versions I've matched up.   So if you are so inclined and would be so kind, please stop by this post to cast your vote.   The winner will be announced on Friday.  


          Do you like to bake?  Do you like to eat cookies?    Do you like to think up ridiculous analogies?    


Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Whar Kin I Larn to Rite Good? --#IWSG

It's #IWSG Day

      First Wednesday of the month means it's time again for another edition of the Insecure Writer's Support Group, the monthly event hosted by Alex J. Cavanaugh.   This is where a bunch of writerly types convene to discuss writing and all of the conflicting good and bad feelings that come with the pursuit of the literary arts.  This is a forum for commiseration and encouragement.  Confide your fears or crow your victories.   I'm sure you've got something worth saying so join in and let it all hang out.


Is Good Writing Learned or an Innate Talent?

       I started reading and writing at a fairly young age.  My parents bought me a variety of books over the years and always encouraged book ownership for me as well as visits to the library.  The reading must have inspired my writing.  That along with some good teachers over the years who encouraged my writing and instilled fairly decent knowledge of grammar and spelling.   I've always enjoyed writing even when it came time for the essay tests in high school and college.

       My sense is that our upbringing and education along with the attitudes of those around us are the influences that shape us into writing well.   I'm not a big fancier in genetics making us what we are as far as behavior, preferences, and tastes, though I'm no geneticist so I don't feel qualified to argue this point.

How Can I Learn to Write Better? 

      Especially when the A to Z Challenge gets underway, I start finding blogs where there is some truly outstanding writing.   Some of what I read on blogs is so amazing that it almost makes me just want to forget about blogging and take up some enterprise like watching television.   Then I go and read books by really fine writers and see my own writing future as one of unsalvageable mediocrity.  How can I write as well as these book authors write or some of the outstanding bloggers compose their blog posts?  

      Is it a matter of taking more writing classes?  Reading more books about writing?  Subscribing to writing magazines?   I think all of those can help but they are not the panacea that guarantees great writing.   Reading top notch authors certainly can be a good influence.  Even reading poor writing can teach us something sometimes.

       The most important thing though is to keep practicing our writing.  Blogging is useful in that respect.  Writing when you feel like it is better than nothing, but writing when you don't want to write can be an amazing exercise.   Daily writing such as the Blogging from A to Z Challenge might require can provide a good writing work-out.   The bottom line though and the main point I'm trying to make is that writing should be treated like a job if you're seriously considering becoming a pro at it.  You write because you have to do it and not just write when you feel like it.  

         If writing is like your hobby then fine--have fun with it.  If you write to relax then don't get stressed about it and just take it easy.   If you write because you feel like writing then that's appropriately what you should probably be doing.   But if writing is a passion that you'd like to see pay off with either financial remuneration or just the satisfaction of being published or whatever your end goal may be, then sit down and just write without complaining, without regretting, and without excuses.   No guarantees that you will attain writing greatness, but odds are you will write better.

And Now A Survey For You

       Can you help me with some research?   If so, please answer the following questions:

1)   There are many ways we can improve our writing such as classes, writing groups, books about writing, writing blogs, magazines for writers, and so on.    Which resource have you used the most for learning to become a better writer?
2)   Whose knowledge do you accept as the highest authority where it comes to writing (for example--famous authors, established writers, writing teachers, bloggers, friends, family members, yourself, or someone else)?
3)   Do you now or have you ever subscribed to any writing magazines (Writers Digest, Poets & Writers, Creative Nonfiction, The Writer, Quill & Quire, or others)?   If so which and what are your thoughts about the usefulness of that(those) publication(s)? 

      Thanks in advance if you've been willing to help me with this research.


A to Z Reflections Posts

      If you haven't added your Reflections Post link to the list yet we hope you will do so by this coming Friday May 8th.  There are some outstanding posts so far--I hope you've been checking them out.  There's been a lot of praise as well as some good ideas offered.  These posts should be available throughout the year with the Linky List available on a tabbed page on the A to Z Challenge Blog.  

Battle of the Bands

     Voting is still open for my most recent Battle of the Bands post.  If you still haven't voted I hope you'll pop over to cast your vote for your favorite version of  "Je Crois Entendre Encore" as performed by David Gilmour or Alison Moyet.          





   

Friday, April 29, 2011

Your Yesterdays

"Refuse to write your life and you have no life."Patricia Hampl


        Your past is the wellspring that supplies all interpretation of who you are and what you know.  A writer who attempts to shake his past becomes a mere amalgamation of the thoughts of others.  In the end that writer who tries to reject his past is merely a poseur who has betrayed his own true essence and is little more than a puppet master of word manipulation.


"Every author in some way portrays himself in his works, even if it be against his will."    ~Goethe


           Good or bad, everything that has happened to us in our lifetime shapes our world view.  We are who we have been and what we have known in our lives.  In natural writing this will come across organically and without shame.  No matter how much we try to force our words our true self is hiding somewhere within.  


"Everybody needs his memories. They keep the wolf of insignificance from the door."--   Saul Bellow


             Sometimes I hear people saying that they don't want to talk about themselves, they just want to write.  But why do we read a particular writer?  Sure it's the story and the writer's skill, but isn't it also the style?  The style comes from the writer's unique voice and the uniqueness of the writer's voice comes from who that writer is.  That writer persona has been formed and molded from the memories and experiences of the author.  If you want to be known as a writer, then you must speak in your own unique voice.


"Anybody who has survived his childhood has enough information about life to last him the rest of his days." --   Flannery O'Connor

         We sometimes hear the protest, "But my life isn't interesting--I've never done anything and nothing has ever happened in my life that's special!"  Therein lies your mission.  You've witnessed plenty in your lifetime. You've got plenty of data stored in your memory banks.  Now it's up to you to put it together into something interesting.  Like the letters of the alphabet can be formed into an infinite number of words, what you know can be put together in countless ways and told over and over.  No one has seen life from your unique perspective.



"The man who writes about himself and his own time is the only man who writes about all people and about all time." 

--
George Bernard Shaw



          
Still the stubborn cry may be raised, "I can't keep writing about myself--my readers will get bored."  But perhaps you're confusing the uniqueness of your personal story and the shared experience of the human story.  We still read the great authors of the past because they tell a story that still applies to us in our age.  The settings, the nuances of language, the customs may have changed but the emotions and needs are much the same now as they ever were.  If we can successfully write our own story into the story of humanity then we have accomplished one of the main goals of being a writer.



"Everything one invents is true..." -- Gustave Flaubert


        In one final attempt at argument you might say, "But I want to write fiction. I don't want to write a memoir or about anything that is true."

        It's still about you. Even if what you write is the most extreme fantasy, science fiction, or any other form, you are still part of the story. The story you tell is an extension of who you are and what you know and what you believe. If it's not these things, then what is it? Fiction? There is no real fiction, only fictionalized accounts of that which is true. If this is not the case then the story is not to be believed and the author is a liar.

"In a very real sense, the writer writes in order to teach himself, to understand himself, to satisfy himself."
-- Alfred Kazin

         Often on Tossing It Out I have written blog posts based on my life and my experiences.  I don't worry too much whether the readers want to hear about what I think or what I've done in the past.  My main concern is whether it has been written engagingly enough for readers to want to read it and to be entertained in the process.  There are times when I might want to attempt to teach a lesson or even persuade a side of some opinion.  Like any writer, my goal is to please my audience, but since I am the first member of my audience who reads what I have written, my primary goal is to please myself with my work.  If you are not pleased with your writing then you need to write until you are pleased.  Always be honest with yourself.


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          Lola has become my 1000th follower!  Does anyone know who Lola is and does Lola have a blog?  I'd like to link to her blog to recognize this milestone achievement for Tossing It Out.  I wish everyone who decided to follow my blog would drop in the comments after they've clicked the follow button to let me know so I can reciprocate the follow.  But on the other hand, I'm thankful for everyone who does follow. My thanks to each of you!

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          The A to Z Challenge Reflections Mega Post is coming next Monday May 2nd.  Hope you will join us with your thoughts about the Challenge.  Click on the link to read the details.  The Linky list will be available this weekend.   Make sure that you add the precise link for your Reflections Post.

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           Do you write about yourself?   Have you used past life experiences in your writing?  Do you agree or disagree with today's post?





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Monday, December 6, 2010

Visualization

          Visualization is something that has become in more recent decades something that is part of New Age thinking.  It is often associated with prosperity or success philosophies which say if you picture something long enough and strong enough in your mind it will eventually come into being. 

            One of the early American proponents of this technique is  Wallace Wattles (1860–1911), who wrote The Science of Getting Rich.  His philosophy is rooted in some of the beliefs of the Hindu religion. Since then many success and self-improvement movements and books have continued in this similar school of thinking.  In the 1970s there were many new religious movements that embraced these thoughts.

              I am not here today to advocate any of the religious connections to visualization, but to approach the topic from a more logical viewpoint related to writing.  Although before proceeding I will say that in my own life there are things that I have visualized with a strong focus and they have come to pass.  This has been sometimes with good results and sometimes bad.  It is an illustration of be careful what you wish for because you might get it, but that's another topic for another time.  The real point that I'd like to make though is that the act of creative visualization usually has its results through logical explanations.  I'm not saying there can't be supernatural consequences to creatively visualizing something, but let me return to this aspect on my post tomorrow.

             Today let's look at the act of vividly visualizing as a part of the creative process of writing.  When I am reading something I try to picture what I'm reading.  This may be one reason that I often have a difficult time reading something that deals with concepts or things that are more related to thinking than seeing, or that is thinking in the sense of reasoning and contemplation.  This is me, and may be some you, and there are probably some complex reasons for this and I certainly wouldn't want to delve into those reasons here.  The bottom line is that I do better reading a story and story is my current topic.

            When I am writing, I am attempting to create a world, characters, and a series of events that the reader can become a part of.   In order to do this most effectively I see it as imperative that all of these things become real to me.  This must be done through vivid visualization. 

             Some writers take a very organized and detailed approach in creating outlines, character sketches, and other recorded details about aspects of the story with which they are dealing.  This is probably the most sensible approach.  My approach is much more internalized in my imagination.

             When I begin a story I start with a particular component which is usually focused on plot, character, or setting.  I start by thinking about it and organizing the basics in my mind.   Sometimes I will write down a few notes, but mostly I essentially start daydreaming or going through a process of visualization. 

              I will picture the characters and imagine as much as I can to make them real.  They become almost as real to me as the people I actually encounter in my life.   I can see in my mind in detail the places where the story takes place--I am there and I know what everything looks like.  The settings of my stories become places that are absolutely real to me. 

            Being unable to visualize what I am going to write is when inspiration is labored.  At that point I may have to look at a map or research what I want to write about.  Inability to understand inhibits being able see a clear image of my writing subject.

              Call it what you will, the ability to see the movie in my mind allows me to write the screenplay for whatever I am seeing.   Whether a short story or a  novel, I need to be able to drop myself in the midst of that story's world and become an observer in that world.  

               Success is when I find myself thinking about that world at random times during the day or relating my story to things I hear about or witness.   At times I may be experiencing life in a duality of existence--I am here where I am, but part of me is living in the level of my story.  In some ways this might sound a little crazy, but I think everyone in every pursuit does something very similar.  We are who we are and who we want others to think we are.

               My ultimate visualization victory is when I begin to dream the characters, setting, and story.  At that point I realize that the writing that I am working on has firmly placed itself into my subconscious and is now an absolute part of me.  Once I have achieved the ability to dream about my story I am often able to find solutions to aspects that have perplexed me, new understandings about characters or story concepts, or even new directions for the plot to take.

            What approach works best for you in creating your story and its elements?  Do you lean more toward a structured and practical approach?   If so, why do you think that works best?   How intensely do you resort to visualization?   What are the hazards of relying on vivid visualization?   If you are not a writer, do you use visualization in your own pursuit?

          Tomorrow I will be addressing the topic of creative visualization.    On Wednesday I will have a special post with a scheduled stop on Tamara Hart Heiner's book tour appearing on Tossing It Out.   Then on Thursday I'll be pulling something out of my hat.





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