This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2024 the theme is a personal retrospective that I call "I Coulda Been" which is in reference to my job and career arc over my lifetime. I'll be looking at all sorts of occupations that I have done or could have done. Maybe you've done some of these too!

Monday, September 23, 2024

Cruel Is a Matter of Perspective ( #BOTB Results )

     Life can be such a weird mix of happy and sad, exciting and ordinary, and all the other elements of life that make the journey so interesting and fun as well as difficult.  Of all the good and bad things of my life, I don't know that I'd want to give any of them up because they brought me to where I am now. It's the story of life isn't it?

      It seems like every summer has been my best summer, but this past summer really was one of the best.  One of them--it's hard to decide, but this summer of 2024 was a good one for me.  There was so much during our June vacation that made this summer so good, but I won't go into that in this post.  Just one story if I may.

    Due to some unplanned changes in our schedule, we ended up leaving New Jersey after over two weeks at the beginning of June spent with my daughters and their families.  The unexpected schedule change caused us to decide to go to Chicago where I would drop my wife off to spend a week with her daughter's family while I drove back to California on my own. I was fine with that.

       Since I would be so close, I decided to visit a dear old friend from my show biz life who lived in Wisconsin not far from Chicago.  I hadn't seen him and his wife for about 40 years though I'd often spoken to him on the found during that time.  They were both very welcoming to me and I spent two days with them.  We reconnected with no problem. It was like we'd just left off from our last visit. 

       In short, we had a great time.  So many stories to tell!  The two day visit was jam-packed and I had a great time.   However, I had to get back to California so I'd be there when my wife arrived.  The trip home was wonderful.  I thought of my visit with my friends most of the way home and called while I was driving just to let them know how I was doing and thank them for their hospitality.  I let my friend know that I'd call him August 1st after he had returned from a trip to Quebec where he was going to visit his wife's family.

      The cruel part of the story is that a couple of days before I was planning to call my friend, his son called me to let me know that his dad had passed away in his sleep the previous night. Such irony that I had managed to visit at that time in order to see him again.  I hate losing friends.

      

Battle of the Bands Results



Cruel Summer Battle

      Two songs, same name.  My most recent Battle was between two different songs by Taylor Swift and Bananarama, both songs having the same name with similar concepts being conveyed.

       My vote is for Bananarama.  I'm not familiar with the music of Taylor Swift so this song was new to me.  I can't say that I hated it, but to me the song is what I would imagine an AI song to sound like.  Or maybe a song formulated by some sort of songwriting committee. It's kind of fun, but the older song is more fun and more authentic.

Final Vote Tally

Taylor Swift         0 votes

Bananarama      10 votes


 Guess we can see where all these voters are coming from generationally speaking.  But I don't know.  All I know is that Taylor didn't do so good here.


Next Battle Tuesday October 1

        What next?  Halloween themes?  Fall?  What?  I don't know, but I guess I'll start thinking about this.



Sunday, September 15, 2024

Cruel Summer ( #BOTB )

        Another summer is now behind us as we look to fall, then winter, then another new year. We had some hot days this summer, but in no way would I think of my summer 2024 as cruel.  There were some really great things as well as a few not so great.  It's been a pretty good year for me, but that's the way my life usually has been in retrospect...


Battle of the Bands


        Battle of the Bands is the blogging event started by Far Away Series and now hosted by StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands.   This event happens each month on the 15th and on some there is also a Battle on the 1st of the month.  My blog is one of of with a second Battle excepting over these summer months.   The premise is simple:  Listen to the songs presented below and then in the comments vote for your favorite and tell us why you liked it.  Then visit the links listed near the bottom of this post for more Battle action.


Cruel Summer

       Recently I received one of those YouTube recommendations for a Taylor Swift recording of a song called "Cruel Summer."  Since Swift is so much in the news, I thought this would be a good Battle of the Bands selection since I thought she was covering the old song I already knew. But, no, this was her own song of the same title and not the one from the eighties that I remembered.  Oh well, I guess it can still be part of a Battle of the Bands

       Soon I plan to tell more about my interesting--and somewhat cruel to a degree--summer past.  But for now, let me focus on this Battle of the Bands...

         

      

Taylor Swift - Cruel Summer (2019)

       Definitely not the "Cruel Summer" song that I remember.  This is kind of catchy in a way.  But how does it stand up to the Bananarama song that I knew?  What do you think?

       




Bananarama - Cruel Summer (1983)

      This is the one my generation remembers.  You do remember this one right?


   



Time to Vote!

         Don't be cruel!  Just listen to the songs then tell us which song you like best? 
  Hopefully you have an opinion of some kind.  You don't have to know about music to have an opinion since it all comes down to your own personal taste.

        Please vote on your favorite by letting us know your choice in the comment section and tell us why you prefer the version you chose. Then after you've finished here, please visit the other blogs listed below who may or may not be participating this time around. And if you've put up your own BOTB contest let us know that as well so we can vote on yours. I don't know if anyone else will be doing a Battle this time around, but you can still check out these sites.


Here are some other places where you might find BOTB posts:

 StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands

'Curious as a Cathy'

Sound of One Hand Typing

Jingle, Jangle, Jungle 







Results on Monday September 23
  
        Maybe I'll tell you about my summer or something.  But I'll mainly try to give some results of this Battle.  Please vote!






Monday, September 9, 2024

When in Doubt, Post #BOTB Results

       Firstly, let me wish my sister Joy a happy birthday.  Not that she'll read it here--I'll call her directly--but I thought it would be a nice thing to say.  And before I say anything more, I'll attend to the main business of this blog post...


Battle of the Bands Results



California Dreamin'

     My most recent Battle of the Bands was between two versions of the Mama and Papas classic song "California Dreamin'". 

       I liked both versions quite well, but my favorite was the version by America which was the popular trend in this Battle.


Final Vote Tally

America        9 votes

Sia                5 votes


Next Battle on Sunday September 15th

    Maybe I'll actually have a post with substance on that day.  It's been hard getting back into blogging regularity.








Wednesday, September 4, 2024

A Thank You to All of My Teachers ( #IWSG )

      There have been some things in my life that I didn't want to do that I'm glad that I was essentially forced to do.  Other things that I was expected to do, I was not so happy about doing....


The Insecure Writer's Support Group


Join us on the first Wednesday of each month in Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writer's Support Group--a forum of writers who gather to talk about writing and the writer's life. For a complete list of participants visit Alex's Blog
     The co-hosts for the September 4 posting of the IWSG are Beth Camp, Jean Davis, Yvonne Ventresca, and PJ Colando.




September 4 question - Since it's back to school time, let's talk English class. What's a writing rule you learned in school that messed you up as a writer?


       Thanks to my education in the public school system, I can write reasonably well. In my post elementary school years, I had mostly decent English teachers as well as a few that were outstanding.  The teachers that laid the groundwork for those higher education years did a fine job of helping me enjoy writing and doing it with some semblance of skill.  So, I cannot think of any writing rules that I learned that were detrimental to me.  

      I must be getting pretty complacent in my sunset years.  That's okay.

   
       

       






Sunday, September 1, 2024

California Dreamin' --Movie Versions (#BOTB)

            Here we are in the midst of another long holiday weekend.  Who's reading this Labor Day season?  I don't have any plans for the next few days at present, but who knows--spontaneity can be fun.  And so can just sitting around the house dreaming about stuff.  And since I'm in Los Angeles I guess I'll be California dreaming.  Sounds like a cue for introduction to me...


Battle of the Bands


        Battle of the Bands is the blogging event started by Far Away Series and now hosted by StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands.   This event happens each month on the 15th and on some there is also a Battle on the 1st of the month.  My blog is one of of with a second Battle excepting over these summer months.   The premise is simple:  Listen to the songs presented below and then in the comments vote for your favorite and tell us why you liked it.  Then visit the links listed near the bottom of thfis post for more Battle action.


California Dreamin'

      The song probably needs no introduction as I'd say everyone has heard this hit by the Mamas and Papas. In fact, I'm pretty certain this song has made a Battle of the Bands appearance more than a few times.  Since it's such a great song and it's been in my BOTB queue for years now I've decided to use it for this Battle of versions that came from movies.

America  "California Dreamin'"  (1979)

      This was used in the 1979 film called California Dreaming.  The song was a minor hit during that year.  I think I saw this film, but I couldn't say for sure right now...


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Sia  "California Dreamin'"  (2015)

    This version comes from the 2015 disaster flick San Andreas.  You get some clips of the film in the song video.  You might have seen this one.  Being a fan of movies like this I did manage to see it not long after it came out. I enjoyed it.






Time to Vote!

         This is not a dream!  Or maybe it is. Still, either way, listen to the songs then tell us which song version you like best? 
  Hopefully you have an opinion of some kind.  You don't have to know about music to have an opinion since it all comes down to your own personal taste.

        Please vote on your favorite by letting us know your choice in the comment section and tell us why you prefer the version you chose. Then after you've finished here, please visit the other blogs listed below who may or may not be participating this time around. And if you've put up your own BOTB contest let us know that as well so we can vote on yours. I don't know if anyone else will be doing a Battle this time around, but you can still check out these sites.


Here are some other places where you might find BOTB posts:

 StMcC Presents Battle of the Bands

'Curious as a Cathy'

Sound of One Hand Typing

Jingle, Jangle, Jungle 







Results on Monday September 9th
        
        Please vote so I can have results.  Without your participation this thing doesn't work so well.---Oh well...