This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.
Showing posts with label Life is good. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life is good. Show all posts

Saturday, April 13, 2019

Living Life ( #AtoZChallenge )



Life is the most important gift we will ever receive.  It's one of those gifts that keeps on giving if we are willing to accept it and if we aren't willing then the gift of life keeps on giving anyway.  Appreciate the gift by living life...




#AtoZChallenge 2019 Tenth Anniversary blogging from A to Z challenge letter



          My April posts are looking at my life not only as it was, but as it is and where it might go in the future.   I like my life most of the time and even when I'm not liking it so much, I tend to not hang on to the bad things as much as look forward to the next good things and, more importantly, appreciate the good things that are right in front of me.

         There have been a few dark times in my life when I thought it might be nice to cash in my chips and drop out of the game.  Those times never lasted long thankfully.  They were passing phases of dealing with loss or disappointments.  Then I'd see the sun shining, hear the birds singing, and sense the good all around me.  It's always best when the good expunges the evil.

          No point in letting other people, bad circumstances, or anything else drag me down.  I've got a lot to live for in respect to my dreams and experiences yet to be had.  And of course there are my grandchildren.  I want to live life because there is so much still to live for...


Four of my NJ grandchildren after Marley (in sunglasses) performed at a concert.


          To repeat the mantra of our late A to Z Blog Team leader Tina Downey, "Life is good!"   I tell myself that often.  I must be convincing because I believe it: Life is good and living life the best we can is a good thing to do. 

          I plan to be living life for the rest of my life which I hope is a long time to come. 

          2051 here I come!

          Have you ever considered just giving up in life?   Do you think the value of life is lessened when the quality goes down?    What keeps you focused on goals ahead of you (even if you don't know exactly what those goals are yet)?










Monday, September 8, 2014

#LifeIsGood Sunflower Tribute & BOTB Results



   
            Today nearly 100 bloggers from around the world are paying tribute to the much beloved blogger and kind heart Tina Downey who passed away on August 23rd.   In her honor many of us are planting sunflowers or displaying representations of sunflowers.   The sunflower was Tina's favorite flower.   Hopefully we can in our various ways help to carry on the memory of Tina Downey.

A Garden Is an Expression of Hope

The "flower bed" in my backyard

      I've never been much of a gardener.  When we first moved into the house where we live, I attempted to turn most of the backyard into a vegetable garden.   I ended up with more jalapenos and Anaheim chiles than I could use and some of the sorriest scrawniest cucumbers I'd ever seen and that was the extent of my crop.  The following year I decided to turn most of the backyard into a patio with only a tiny strip allotted to plants.

        There are flowering plants in the little circular place you see pictured above, but the blooms don't stay long.  It's a pretty scraggly mess I will admit.  I planted a row of sunflower seeds along the wall and while I was in a planting mood, I also planted some kind of flower that I cannot recall what it was.   Hopefully they'll grow, but we'll see.  

My  Garden Is Not Hopeless

Those two plants you see on either side were
 started years ago from tiny houseplants.

       For any of you who lack faith in my gardening abilities I will let you know that several years ago I actually did have a nice healthy stand of tall sunflowers growing in one corner of this same strip where I've planted my sunflowers for Tina.   I don't recall whatever happened to those previous sunflowers, but I assure you that they were there for some time and quite beautiful.

       Also on either side of my little garden children you see in the above photo are a rubber tree and some other palm-like plant that I planted as small houseplants that were given to my teacher wife many years ago by one of her students.  Actually my sister transplanted them and left them to my care--or should I say non-care.   Despite neglect those plants have flourished.  In fact, I've pruned that rubber tree several times as it grows like crazy.   So stuff does grow in my backyard.   And I don't do much of anything.   That's why there's not much of a garden there.

        I think Tina would get a chuckle out of my ineptitude as a gardener.  But, hey. I'm trying--kind of.  I don't know if there is any particular season for growing sunflowers in Los Angeles.   As far as I know the growing season here is kind of year round.   Then again what do I know about planting stuff?  

         I hope I see some sunflowers in my backyard.   Along with those other flowers that I won't know what they are if they grow.   If I do get any flowers, I'll put a picture of them on my blog.               

          Be sure to visit the other tributes to Tina Downey.   The complete list of participants can be found here.


BATTLE OF THE BANDS RESULTS!





          My match-up between Anjelica Huston and Lou Reed performing their versions of "September Song" ended up with some surprising results as well as more than a few unfavorable opinions about both artists.  My vote in this one doesn't matter one way or another in regard to the final outcome.   Anjelica trounced Lou by 25 to 9 votes.   Not as I expected.

          When I put together my Battle of the Band segments, I don't choose the versions that I necessarily think are among the best.   I'm looking for the most interesting.   Sometimes those might be the best while at times they might be the worst.   Besides it's all a matter of that little issue called taste.   What's good to one person may not be all that great to another.

           In the case of the contest at hand I went into it with Lou Reed as my pick.  I've liked the Lost in The Stars: The Songs of Kurt Weill  album since I first bought it in the mid-80's.  When I thought of "September Song" I decided that Reed's version would be the male entry in the contest.

        I chose Anjelica Huston because I liked the connection with her grandfather Walter Huston.   When I first listened to Anjelica's version I hated it.  In fact I didn't even listen to the whole thing.  Then I listened to it again--all the way through.  Then again.  And again.   Then it began to dawn upon me.  Anjelica Huston was not just singing the song, she was dramatizing it.   I began to feel it.  Soon I liked it better than Lou Reed's version.

        And that's how I changed my vote to Anjelica Huston.   I like her version better now.  I still enjoy the version by Reed, but it's more of a poppish novelty.   The Huston version is a mini-drama.  A soliloquy.  A meaningful admonition to the young and all the rest of us.  I believe Anjelica Huston's version the most.

Final Vote:

Anjelica Huston 26

Lou Reed 9

         Be here next Monday September 15th  for another Battle of the Bands.   This will be where I address the inevitable in BOTB for future battles as I present a special tribute Battle with potential marketing implications.


Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Thank You Tina Downey...I'll Miss You


   

         For those of you who might have missed the sad news, our dear Blogging from A to Z Challenge Team member, Tina Downey, left this earthly life this past Saturday August 23rd.   Many of you have already posted tributes to Tina on your own blogs.   They have been moving heartfelt tributes that show how many lives this wonderful lady touched.   And now I am faced with a page to fill with words for Tina.

        What can I say in a time like this?   Since hearing the news about Tina on Sunday morning, my mind has been a muddle of whys and what next.   Tuesday morning in the wee early hours I awoke from my dreams as words formed in my head.  This is what I would say: beautiful words that would change the world.   With my mind roiling, the words dissipated into empty inadequacy.   How can my words truly express what I feel--what Tina meant to me?   To all of us?

           Tina was a driving force behind the A to Z Team.   To many she was a behind the scenes figure of the Challenge, but to those who were most aware of the goings on in the A to Z community, Tina was a dynamo who made things go.

            She called herself "Schedule Woman" because she made sure posts were going up as they should on the A to Z Blog.   All of us on the A to Z Team are well familiar with the fun and funny missives she would regularly send out to us.   She'd scold, praise, and commiserate as the occasion called for.  It was all done in the name of friendship and love.   And she was loved back by everyone she touched with her communications.

          I'm going to miss Tina in so many ways.   Many of you will surely miss her as well.  And if we who never actually encountered Tina in person miss her as much as we all do, then our loss must be mighty small in contrast to Tina's family and friends--those who were with her in the world beyond our virtual world of blogging and with her in her everyday world.  In a way I envy those who were in that real world of family meals, gatherings of friends, and camping trip adventures.   Then again, could I stand the pain of losing someone that close?

          Tina, someday I hope we can actually meet face to face.  Meet in a place beyond this small world where there are no more tears or loss or emptiness.   You are gone for now, yet you fill my life and my memories.   Despite your struggles with health you showed us all that Life Is Good.   I believe that with all my heart.   Life is good.   I'll try to keep that as my motto too.

            Thank you, Tina, for everything.    I will miss you greatly.

         If you have not yet done so, please visit Tina's blog Life Is Good to leave a message in her remembrance.    You can also add your blog link to the list following this post if you have done or will be doing a tribute post in honor of Tina.  Read below for more information.


In memory of Tina Downey, the A to Z Team is hosting a  sunflower tribute on September 8, 2014 – Remembering Tina Downey.
Prior to that date, purchase or plant a sunflower in her honor. (If you have to resort to plastic, that’s cool.) Take a photo of your sunflower and post in in her memory on Monday, September 8. Tina loved her sunflowers, and we want to splash the blogging world with sunflowers that day and honor a truly amazing woman who was friend and family to so many.
You can sign up now or add your link when you post your sunflower.
Please help us spread the word! Let’s brighten the Internet with sunflowers the way Tina brightened the lives of so many.


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