This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Why Is Swearing Important?

English: "No Swearing" sign along At...
English: "No Swearing" sign along Atlantic Avenue in Virginia Beach, Virginia. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

    Now that we've got the A to Z Challenge out of the way, we can settle back into the regular routine.  In case you are new to Tossing It Out, the typical Monday post concerns matters that might be considered controversial.   For me they are things that have crossed my mind and I'd like to get some other thoughts about them.  I may have already drawn my own conclusions or I could be trying to come up with an answer. I'm not trying to start a fight, but an intelligent discussion.  I'm tossing some ideas out to you and hoping you'll be willing to engage in some mental juggling.

The Topic of Swearing

      The topic of using "blue language" as it pertains to ones writing has been tackled previously on Tossing It Out in a guest post from Bridget Straub and a post of my own.   I've also seen other blogs address the topic.  There are varying opinions on this, but the most common defense is that profanity is most often used in writing in order to create realistic characters.  I won't argue the point again and if you're interested in knowing my views you can click on the above links.

       In this first of three posts concerning swearing on a personal level in everyday life, I basically want to get  your thoughts on the subject.  I will be asking a few questions for you to answer in the comments.  My response will be low to none for the comments for this post as I will be addressing the ideas you bring up here in my next two posts.

       For those who may be wondering what happened with the series about gun control and violence that we left off with back in March, this mini-series will be actually related to that one in a sense and will be connected later on.  For those who dislike my debate features on Mondays, you can also let me know in the comments.

Terms of Debate

         If you're wondering why I'm discussing this particular topic now, I will explain.   During the A to Z there was some concern about the AC (Adult Content) labeling of certain blogs.  I was not thrilled about labeling, but after some complaints last year there was a general agreement among the majority of the A to Z Team members that a warning was needed if a blog could be deemed particularly offensive due to language or content.   Some bloggers felt that this was unfair and they should be able to write what they wanted without labels.   Now I'd like to get some feedback concerning this and the use of language that might be deemed offensive.

         The language that I'm dealing with includes blasphemy (offensive to a religion), vulgarity (crude language), cursing/swearing (oaths of a traditionally offensive nature),  profanity (cuss words), and obscenity (unscientific words of a sexual or scatological nature).  Generally speaking this will be what might be called bad words or foul language.

         In the next two Monday posts I want to look at a few aspects of the everyday use of blue language on an individual basis.   Some of the questions I plan to address:

Why Do People Swear?

  • Intent of the action
  • Background of the users
  • The language filter depending on circumstances
  • The effect on society


What's So Funny About Swearing?

  • The humorous aspect
  • Devaluation of the impact of words
  • Degradation of the language
  • First amendment defense of swearing

Today's questions for you in regard to your daily life:

Do you swear?    To what extent?

If swearing bothers you, why?

Should there be an age limit on swearing?

Is swearing constructive or useful in any way?

Why do you think swearing is important?

         I hope you will help me with this so I can get better clarification for my upcoming posts and to find the best solutions for the content labeling issues for Blogging from A to Z.


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Friday, May 3, 2013

Blogging from A to Z April Challenge 2013 Reflections Post


What a Challenge!

        Another year of A to Z Blogging is now behind us and the 2013 April Challenge is now history.  It's been interesting and a Challenge for me every step of the way.  In fact much of the A to Z Team was faced with a variety of illnesses, family deaths, computer problems, and an array of other difficulties thrown our way.  But we made it successfully and that certainly counts for something.   I'd call this year another success and maybe the best A to Z Challenge yet.

        The quality of some of the posts was incredible.  I think we'll see more than just a few books resulting from the groundwork laid during the month of April.  The range of subject matter, stylistic approaches, and exceptional writing was truly dazzling.   I barely scratched the surface of the blogs entered in the Challenge, but for the most part what I did see was inspiring as well as entertaining.  I congratulate each and every one of you for a job very well done.

         We ended sign-ups on April 1st with 1969 links entered on the Linky List.  By the end we culled 314 links from the list due to bloggers dropping out or others pulled due to non-participation or not being an actual blog eligible for the Challenge.   For the most part from what I saw and heard from other participants we ended up with a fairly uncluttered list of participating blogs.

Thank You A to Z Team Assistants:

          The help we received from the subordinate teams of assistants to each co-host was particularly valuable especially from the standpoint of  the setbacks that some of the co-hosts were dealing with.  This was something new that we tried this year and I think it worked very effectively.  We were hopefully able to keep a fairly regular presence on the participating blogs with the help of the sub teams and they were very helpful in keeping the co-hosts informed when a problem arose with any of the blogs on the list.

         Here again is my super team of A to Z Ambassadors:


Judy  at  Raising the Curtain


Jaimie at    Living in the Light

Yvonne at The Written Word of Yvonne Lewis 

Alana at Writercize  

         Thanks to all of my team.   I hope all of you reading this will stop by their blogs and give them a virtual pat on the back for a job very well done.   Be looking for more from them in the future.

       
And here's to the A to Z Team of Co-hosts:

          I think it goes without saying that our A to Z Team of co-hosts is the greatest.  But I'll say it anyway--The A to Z Team is a great bunch of bloggers and if I were wearing my hat I'd tip it to them.  They've all served in their own special ways and I'm sure most of you have gotten to know at least a few of them rather well.

Here is the 2013 team:



The Madlab Post (Nicole Ayers)

Tossing It Out (Arlee Bird)

Amlokiblogs (Damyanti Biswas)

Alex J. Cavanaugh (Alex J. Cavanaugh)

Life is Good (Tina Downey)

Cruising Altitude 2.0 (DL Hammons)

Retro-Zombie (Jeremy Hawkins)

The Warrior Muse (Shannon Lawrence)

The QQQE (Matthew MacNish)

Leave it to Livia (Livia Peterson)

No Thought 2 Small (Konstanz Silverbow)

Stephen Tremp's Blog (Stephen Tremp)

Spunk on a Stick (L. Diane Wolfe)


       This will be the official A to Z Team until the end of the year.  The 2014 Team will be announced at the beginning of January.  Don't be surprised if many of these Team members return next year!   For any openings that arise we'll put out a call for new Team members as we get closer to the end of this year.

        Be sure to drop by to visit all of the A to Z Team blogs and let them know how much you appreciate them.  They've really put forth some effort!

What Else Helped the Success of 2013?

       Besides the sub-teams of assistants and our team of co-hosts, social media has become highly important to making A to Z a big success.   Our Facebook page is very active and if you're on Facebook but not subscribed to our page, be sure to do so to join the wonderful community that meets there.  Many of you also were tweeting about the Challenge.  I encourage you to keep the tweets tweeting.  We even have a small but faithful contingent who came to the Challenge via LinkedIn.  Maybe we can get an actual A to Z group started there.

        It all helps and if any of you have ideas of other things to try please let us know about them.  Thank all of you who posted about A to Z on your blogs in order to spread the word.

The Future:

        Every year we learn something new and we keep tweaking the process to make things work better.  My dream still is to have a better system for registration and maintaining the list.  It is pretty big and diverse right now.  It could get bigger in the future, but I think we'll have to do something more about containing it and managing it more effectively.

         Keep spreading the word about A to Z.  Talk about it on your blogs and tell your friends about it.

         For a good example of the type of article that helps the A to Z cause, check out this recent post.  Jo Murphey at The Murphey Saga wasn't a participant in this year's Challenge, but she put together one of the better posts I've seen about why anyone should do the A to Z Challenge or another blog event like D.L. Hammons' Blog Blitz.

Let's hear from you now.  If you haven't yet done your own Reflections Post we hope you'll compose one between now and next Thursday and add it to the list.  Please make sure you add the link that directly connects to your Reflections Post.

Reflections list starts here:



          Thank you everyone!


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Wednesday, May 1, 2013

#IWSG: How Can I Find the Time to Do Everything I Want to Do?




First Wed of Every Month        Another A to Z accomplished and now to jump right into our insecurities as writers as we join Alex J. Cavanaugh's Insecure Writer's Support Group.   I'm not too keen about focusing on my writing insecurities after successfully completing my 26 A to Z posts on all four of my blogs with a few additional posts on the A to Z Blog.  But I'll be reflecting more on the A to Z Challenge this coming Friday May 3rd right here on Tossing It Out.  For more information about the annual Blogging from A to Z Challenge Reflections Post please visit the A to Z Blog.

         So what insecurities to bring up today?  Let me delve back to my post from February 25th of this year.    At that time I announced my intent to start a Wednesday series called "Ask Arlee" and requested that readers submit questions to which I might offer my solutions.   Now that April is done and we are back to normal in a sense, I will resume this feature.  And today being Wednesday we'll start with a question that I get a bit insecure about myself.

         This dilemma comes from Julie Anne Nelson, Young Adult Author:

All right, here's my question:
How do I find time to do the business/marketing side of writing when I am already working two full-time jobs with the job that supports me and the writing that creates the books?
(I am also starting a garden this year and getting a new puppy... neither of which is negotiable... although I do see some comical dichotomies in those two events. Mental note: must put fences around the garden... or the puppy... or both.) :) 

        

       Oh boy, this hits straight home on one of the problems that seems to continually vex me. There's never enough time in the day to do everything I need to do and would like to get done and still have time to watch a movie now and then or take a really adequate afternoon nap. I don't know how anyone with a full time job (let alone two jobs!) can take on writing and life in general. You add in the business/marketing side and you've got more than seems feasible.

Prioritize

      It almost seems trivial to mention prioritizing things, but I know that's what I need to do in my life. I'm sure you're probably prioritizing already. The regular job is a must unless you can find some other kind of income flow or the writing really breaks loose in a big way. Gardens and puppies are probably good to maintain your sanity and keep balance in your life.

Schedule

       If you haven't tried making a list or schedule to see where your time is going then that might be an approach to take. Maybe you're losing some time or even wasting it somewhere. I keep intending to do this list thing, but procrastination is one of my big enemies along with the issue of available time. You can't add any hours to your day, but maybe you can juggle things around to create more efficient time use.

Delegate

      Another good solution is delegating work to others. Recruit whoever you can to help with the garden, the puppy, household duties, or whatever. I don't know your circumstances, but you might be able to take some of the burden off yourself and let some kind souls in your life circle to help you out. Especially if it might mean that you may become rich and famous one day, they might be more than willing to share in your success.

Organize

     The business/marketing end is where the social networking comes into play so nicely. Initially you may have to invest a bit of time getting this aspect organized and honed to a greater precision. You already have your start with the blog and Facebook. If you get these tools along with Twitter, Goodreads, and an array of other networking media coordinated and automated wherever possible, then those should keep you in the web radar on a regular basis.

Network

      Don't forget your network of friends and fellow authors. It takes some time investment to build the platform, but it's time well spent. Once you've got a solid base of support out there, your friends can help with the marketing through tours, mentions, and whatever support they are willing to muster. Be sure to give back what you can in return, but don't just try to do it all on your own.

Fan Base

     Perhaps most importantly let your fans do a good part of your marketing for you. If you are turning out good product that readers like, they will be anxious to pick up on your next offering and to tell others about it. Maybe put out a newsletter for the fans and supporters to provide monthly updates of what's happening.

The Pay Off

     Sure, it all takes some time to do this. But it takes time to make time. What you invest now should pay off in the end if you've done it right. Maybe you know all of this already. If not I hope my suggestions help you. And since this post is for all of the readers, I hope it helps a number of you to consider your options. This applies to more things than just writing. Time is the nemesis we all face, but if we are able to manage it better, time can be our friend. Well, kind of a friend.

        Are you challenged by keeping your time managed well? Do you live by a strict schedule? What are some time saving tricks that you use in order to get more things done in your life?

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