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Showing posts with label Swearing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Swearing. Show all posts

Monday, May 13, 2013

Why Do You Swear?

swearing in cartoon Suomi: Kiroileva sarjakuva...
swearing in cartoon Suomi: Kiroileva sarjakuvahahmo Nederlands: Schelden en vloeken in strips (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

          This is the second of a series that began with my May 6th post.   If you missed that first post, you might want to start there to get an overview of the topic.  The comments are well worth reading through so if you did not see those you may also want to go back to read them.  Thank you to all of you who participated in that excellent discussion.

   Introduction

       In my previous post I asked the question "Why is swearing important?"   Of course, I asked this question with tongue in cheek since I do not see any reason why swearing is important.  And from the answers I received, the best answer I got was to make speech a bit more colorful.  Isn't that what adjectives, synonyms, metaphors, and other poetic and linguistic devices are for?   I've yet to get an answer that I find absolutely suitable and I doubt that I will.   What can be communicated through crass language that offends can be achieved equally or better through creative and intelligent use of language.

       However, accepting the fact that many people use blue language in their everyday conversation or for other means of expression and don't have a problem with it, and recognizing that others who might not use the language have no problem hearing others who do,  I would like to understand the reasoning behind use of blue language.  I will present my opinions about this and then listen to your thoughts in the comments.
     
Why Do People Swear?

      I will be approaching this question from the following perspectives:
  • Intent of the action
  • Background of the users
  • The language filter depending on circumstances
  • The effect on society


Intent of the action 

  1. One of the most common reasons cited for using profanity is venting after an event that causes anger, frustration, or pain.  This is often a isolated reaction that does not reflect the typical speech of the user.  "Keele University researchers Stephens, Atkins, and Kingston found that swearing relieves the effects of physical pain. Stephens said "I would advise people, if they hurt themselves, to swear". However, the overuse of swear words tends to diminish this effect." (Wikipedia)    There might be better ways to deal with these situations than using profanity.               

     2.  To appear cool, bad, or naughty.  Profanity is prevalent in rap and other forms of modern music as well as in movies and other entertainment media.  Users can identify with thug or gangster life or certain celebrities.  Using obscene language will make the users seem less like nerds, religious followers, or boring types.  The incessant attitude that others should "just get over it" and accept their language exhibits a selfishness that is similar to the spoiled child syndrome.
     3.  To intimidate or offend others.   There are probably some sort of psychological roots to this one.  Does the user of the blue language have some unresolved inner anger about their own lives or in feelings toward others?   There could be any number of reasons an individual would deliberately want to upset others by using certain language.   The causal roots may stem back to a young age or be something that has developed in a latter stage of life. 
     4.  To be funny.  Once again there could be some psychological implications to this reason.  I will explore this one further in my next post.
     5.  Because others in their peer group do it.   This is one of those jumping on the bandwagon things where a user of profanity wants to be accepted as part of their group.  If everyone else swears, the user will be doing it too.
     6.  It seems like the liberated liberal thing to do.  This is probably mostly the case with the more educated and higher income swearers.  The swearing by these individuals probably also can be connected with some of the above reasons.
     7.  Habit.  After starting the swearing for one of the previously cited reasons, eventually the mode of speaking becomes ingrained in the user's speech and often they don't even notice they are doing it. 

Background of the users
   1. Upbringing -- The blue language was commonly used in the users family.
    2.  Cultural influence -- Certain groups of people, especially in urban areas and certain occupational settings, accept the blue language as part of the culture.
   3. Psychological issues-- This would be related to some of the issues listed in the category of "Intent".   This might involve trauma at some stage of life, depression, anger, fear, or any number of other situations that might influence a user to resort to blue language as a means to attempt to express their inner emotions or to gain attention.
The language filter depending on circumstances

       Most users of profanity are able to circumstantially control their use of the language depending on the time, place, and audience.   Typically they would not use profanity in a situation where its use could be problematic for them such as a job interview or an appearance in court.   Fortunately, most casual users of blue language will respect the company they are in and filter out obscenities so as not to offend.  They swear when they are in company that accepts the language or if they intend on offending or upsetting others.

The effect on society

      During the 1960's profanity in public became common in demonstrations such as those against the Viet Nam War.   "Liberated" groups and movements often incorporated profanity into their protests against societal institutions.   As the swearing become more common and less scandalous, the language became more common in movies, music, and other forms of entertainment and expression.  Now more people swear because it seems to be more the norm having less repercussions for the user.  

Where Do You Fit In?

       Now take an honest look inside of yourself.   If you are a casual user of profanity in your typical conversation, why do you do it based on the above assessments?  Or do you disagree with the analysis I have presented?   If you disagree with what I've said here, on which points do you disagree, why, and what is your alternative analysis?   Is there a truly good reason that you infuse profanity into your speech?   
       


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Monday, May 6, 2013

Why Is Swearing Important?

English: "No Swearing" sign along At...
English: "No Swearing" sign along Atlantic Avenue in Virginia Beach, Virginia. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

    Now that we've got the A to Z Challenge out of the way, we can settle back into the regular routine.  In case you are new to Tossing It Out, the typical Monday post concerns matters that might be considered controversial.   For me they are things that have crossed my mind and I'd like to get some other thoughts about them.  I may have already drawn my own conclusions or I could be trying to come up with an answer. I'm not trying to start a fight, but an intelligent discussion.  I'm tossing some ideas out to you and hoping you'll be willing to engage in some mental juggling.

The Topic of Swearing

      The topic of using "blue language" as it pertains to ones writing has been tackled previously on Tossing It Out in a guest post from Bridget Straub and a post of my own.   I've also seen other blogs address the topic.  There are varying opinions on this, but the most common defense is that profanity is most often used in writing in order to create realistic characters.  I won't argue the point again and if you're interested in knowing my views you can click on the above links.

       In this first of three posts concerning swearing on a personal level in everyday life, I basically want to get  your thoughts on the subject.  I will be asking a few questions for you to answer in the comments.  My response will be low to none for the comments for this post as I will be addressing the ideas you bring up here in my next two posts.

       For those who may be wondering what happened with the series about gun control and violence that we left off with back in March, this mini-series will be actually related to that one in a sense and will be connected later on.  For those who dislike my debate features on Mondays, you can also let me know in the comments.

Terms of Debate

         If you're wondering why I'm discussing this particular topic now, I will explain.   During the A to Z there was some concern about the AC (Adult Content) labeling of certain blogs.  I was not thrilled about labeling, but after some complaints last year there was a general agreement among the majority of the A to Z Team members that a warning was needed if a blog could be deemed particularly offensive due to language or content.   Some bloggers felt that this was unfair and they should be able to write what they wanted without labels.   Now I'd like to get some feedback concerning this and the use of language that might be deemed offensive.

         The language that I'm dealing with includes blasphemy (offensive to a religion), vulgarity (crude language), cursing/swearing (oaths of a traditionally offensive nature),  profanity (cuss words), and obscenity (unscientific words of a sexual or scatological nature).  Generally speaking this will be what might be called bad words or foul language.

         In the next two Monday posts I want to look at a few aspects of the everyday use of blue language on an individual basis.   Some of the questions I plan to address:

Why Do People Swear?

  • Intent of the action
  • Background of the users
  • The language filter depending on circumstances
  • The effect on society


What's So Funny About Swearing?

  • The humorous aspect
  • Devaluation of the impact of words
  • Degradation of the language
  • First amendment defense of swearing

Today's questions for you in regard to your daily life:

Do you swear?    To what extent?

If swearing bothers you, why?

Should there be an age limit on swearing?

Is swearing constructive or useful in any way?

Why do you think swearing is important?

         I hope you will help me with this so I can get better clarification for my upcoming posts and to find the best solutions for the content labeling issues for Blogging from A to Z.


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