This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.
Showing posts with label social security. Show all posts
Showing posts with label social security. Show all posts

Monday, December 5, 2016

What does retirement look like for you? (Question of the Month)

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Question of the Month

       The Question of the Month is hosted by Michael G D'Agostino from A Life Examined. The first Monday of each month I'll be answering a question posed by Michael prior to event day. Click on the link to his blog for more participants. 







What does retirement look like for you?

        As one who is already retired I have some advice for those who aren't: Make sure you're financially prepared!  My job history never provided for any type of retirement plan other than Social Security and in all honesty I never thought about it that much.  Besides, my retirement was kind of forced on me--I didn't expect it when it came as I had planned on working much longer.

         When I was last employed I was working as a manager of a wholesale costume company near Los Angeles. I'd been working there for 18 years when my branch was shut down due to economic situations and changes in the way the industry was starting to do business. In a sense, the internet had a hand in my job loss and the internet has had a control over my life ever since.

         My blogging is an offshoot of being retired and not finding a suitable job replacement.  When I hit 62 I went ahead to go officially into retirement phase and collect my Social Security benefits.  I still keep an ear open for money making opportunities, but so far to no avail.

          Thankfully my wife is still working as a teacher so that we've been able to travel during the summers and other times of the year.  But when she's working, I'm pretty much holed up at home which is prime time for blogging activities or other endeavors.

           Since I never thought much about retiring, I had not much in the way of expectations about retirement.  It is nice to follow my own pursuits and not have to work for someone else all day.  Still, I do miss the work to some extent and especially the paycheck.

         When my wife retires in the next few years we'll have to figure out what to do next.  Our children and grandchildren live back east, which means we don't see them much now.  We might need to address that when she retires.  It would be nice to be closer to them so we can see them more often.

        To my thinking, getting older should include being with the immediate family more often and participating in grandchildren's lives.  My mother was fortunate to have a lot of family nearby or who visited her frequently.  That added a great deal to her life and I'd like to see the same for my wife and I.

            No matter what happens though I believe that God will provide the best for what we need.  My life has been rich with blessings and I feel that good things are ahead.

              Where would you most like to go to retire?   Do you like to be close to children and grandchildren?   Did you plan (or have you been planning) your retirement wisely?  




          



Monday, February 10, 2014

The Crappy Old Guy Waiter Restaurant

The New Orleans "Picayune" mascot fr...
The New Orleans "Picayune" mascot frog character as a waiter (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
     

         Social security just doesn't meet the needs of people like me.   I suppose I might ditch the house I have now in favor of smaller cheaper living quarters and subsist on a meager diet of stuff I buy in bulk or at the 99 Cent Store.  I could just stay home and not ever get new clothes or do much of anything but watch TV--free digital television over the airwaves.   There are a lot of things that I could cut back on I suppose, but my wife would really hate it I'm sure.

         With all this in mind I've been contemplating ways I could pick up extra income.  Saturday, while dining at Red Lobster,  my in-laws' favorite restaurant, I began daydreaming over my fishy lunch as I watched the waitstaff bustling about.   Then it hit me--maybe I could wait tables in a restaurant like that.  Why not?  Tips would probably not be too bad and I could probably get discounts on meals for all the times we eat there.  Believe me--we should own stock in the Darden Restaurant group.

         As I pondered my table waiting dream, I realized that these were young folks.  I would be totally out of place in an establishment like this.  No one would want a slow old guy like me waiting on them.  And  I'd be a pretty crappy waiter at that.  I'd be screwing up orders and spilling stuff and undoubtedly getting pretty cranky as my shift wore on.  

         Maybe I could get a job at the Original Pantry Cafe, one of L.A.'s oldest restaurants.  That's a place with some old waiters.  I've heard that some of those waiters have been there for 70 years.  Those guys must really like their jobs.  I'd probably have to wait for one of them to keel over dead before there would be an opening.   Actually some of the waiters already look like they've died.   They've been working there so long that they're just in the habit of being there and don't realize they're dead.   It's possible that a lot of the customers are dead too so they don't pay any attention to the dead waiters.

          If I'm going to work as a crappy old guy waiter then maybe I'll have to start my own Crappy Old Guy Waiter Restaurant.  If I'm the owner though I guess I shouldn't be waiting tables.  I should be greeting customers with a scowl and grumpy demeanor.   So where can I find all those crappy old guys to wait tables?    Or the bigger question is who wants to go to a restaurant where a bunch of crappy old guys are waiting tables?

         Well I'm probably screwed on this idea.   Scrap another great plan and get back to lunch.  Something's fishy at Red Lobster.  

            Have you ever waited tables?    What has been your rudest waiter in a restaurant?   Which restaurant would you want to work in if you were going to work there for 50 years or more?

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