This Is Me--2024 A to Z Theme

My A to Z Themes in the past have covered a range of topics and for 2025 the theme is a random assemblage of things that are on my mind--or that just pop into my mind. Whatever! Let's just say I'll be "Tossing It Out" for your entertainment or however it is you perceive these things.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Ask Arlee: How To Be Happy


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How to be Happy

       Alex J Cavanaugh passed  the How to be Happy in 5 Easy Steps Meme to me.  I guess Alex doesn't think there's enough happiness on my blog so I'm happy to play along on this one.  

        So for this week's "Ask Arlee" installment, the question is:

How do you stay so ebulliently happy?

         Seriously though, despite my sometimes cynical sounding controversial topics, I'm a happy guy.   I may not always seem to exude happiness, but the truth is that I'm often just deeply absorbed in thought and my mind is far away.   On the inside I am a carnival full of fun and cotton candy.  The side you may not see is the circus filled with clowns and jugglers.   Yeah, happy, happy, happy!  That's me.  And I'm serious.

          Here are my tips on keeping basically happy:


  • Don't Worry-- I try my best to follow the advice given in Matthew 6:34:  do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.  
  • Recognize My Blessings--I've got so much to be thankful for and it's best to appreciate what I have and not be discontent for what I don't have.
  • Keep Hope--It's okay to keep dreaming for a better tomorrow and to stay optimistic.  Without hope the future looks pretty bleak.
  • Treasure My Family and Friends-- I have a better chance at happiness as long as I have these treasures rather than a bunch of material stuff.
  • Stay Faithful to God--Even if friends, family, and material possessions are gone, God is there for me and brings me joy.


     
         That's my formula for happiness.   What's yours?

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Monday, June 10, 2013

Should the United States Provide Aid to the Syrian Rebels?

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 Syria Location  (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

   The ongoing war between government forces in Syria and the opposition rebel forces has cost the lives of tens of thousands of people on both sides and of those caught in the middle.  Billions of dollars of damage has been done to the country while more billions have been spent in weaponry and other resources to kept the fight going.   How many of the billions should be coming from the United States?

       The Syrian government has been no great friend to the United States in the past, but it's highly questionable how many true friends to the western world can be found in the opposition forces.  This is an internal conflict that has been fueled by the entrance of a melange of groups including radicals like Al-Qaeda.  All of these movements of militant change want control and if they gain that control it's likely they will not be siding with the United States and its allies.

       A power play is going on in the region with many nations stepping into the arena.   The Syrian government is backed by Russia, China, Iran and the notorious Hezbollah.  With support from the majority of Arab countries and others the rebels have managed to prolong this war for two years.  In the end it may not matter initially to most of the world which side wins, but no matter what, the powder keg that is the Middle East is destined to explode in a big way.   How much money should we invest in that?

        So what's the scenario here?   If the Syrian government regains complete hold on the country and ousts the rebels, Israel will be under the threat of Syria.   If the rebels take over, then Israel will be under the threat of Syria.  The bottom line in all of this is Israel--no surprise for anyone who has studied this history for the past 6000 years.

        Personally, my solution is to take all the politicians who advocate supporting the rebels and issue them a weapon out of the government arsenal and ship them off to the Syrian border.   John Kerry, John McCain, and all the others can take anyone else who wants to join in and at their own expense they can fight the war they want taxpayers to support.  They'll have to buy their own ammo and supplies though.  The weapons and transportation are as far as I want my tax dollars to go.   It would be worth keeping all of this bunch busy over there so more sensible minds can stay to figure out how to spend tax dollars here at home where they're needed most.  I think this group would make for a pretty small army as I don't think many Americans support this uprising in Syria.

        Do you think the U.S.or any of its allies should be sending tax supported military aid to the Syrian rebels?   Should we send our forces there to end the conflict?   A victory from which side do you think would benefit the world most?





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Friday, June 7, 2013

A Magical Fable: Lisa Fender on Tour

         I've met some of the nicest folks over at the LinkedIn writer discussions.  One of these is Lisa Fender who blogs at Lisa's Djen Den.  Since Lisa's got a new book out I invited her over to Tossing It Out to talk about the book and her road to publication.  Leave a comment today and you'll be eligible for a contest drawing.  See details at the end of the post.  And now Lisa:

Lisa Fender, author
Thanks for having me as a guest on your blog, Lee, this is a really exciting time for me. I have wanted to write a book for as long as I can remember. Reading has always been one of my first loves and I excelled in it through school. But as time went on, life got in the way, or should I say, I let life get in the way. I always held onto one day writing a book though, and once the opportunity presented itself, I jumped on it. I guess there’s always a ‘right time, right place’ for everything.

Let me begin by saying, I am literally the waitress that wrote a book! Besides going to school and getting a license in Aesthetics, the only other work I did was in restaurants. I did try to move up the ladder, but with two children at home and I was a single mom for a while in my life, waitressing was the best alternative. The hours were daytimes and I could be there for the kids.

After the kids were on their own, I could begin to fulfill my own dreams. I found myself laid-off from work and that’s when the world of the Djen came to fruition. I sat down one day and began making up this world and what powers they would have and what their purpose was. The last thing I wanted to write about was the typical Vampire, werewolf, and the like, so I thought maybe a takeoff of the Djinni. That evening my sister, Toni, came over and I told her about my idea. I asked her how I should spell the world’s name, Genrye or Jenrye, she said “how about Djenrye, like the true Djinn. Thus, Djenrye was truly born.

Lisa with sister and co-author
Toni Burns
I wrote the rough draft in 3 months, but I knew the manuscript needed a lot of help. I asked my mother, who was an editor at one time in her life to help me, but she couldn’t quite put her finger on the issue either since she edited non-fiction. I then sought out a writing coach and found out what the problem was, I needed to learn creative writing skills. After that, my writing got better and better and I brought my sister into the mix as a helper with editing. She fell in love with the story so I asked her to co-author with me, and the rest as they say, is history.

We have had a lot of fun with this story and getting the book finally launched on Amazon was the most amazing day for us! I don’t think I could ever capture that wonderful feeling again. When the first books arrived for my launch party, I cried for an hour. I couldn’t believe it! Holding the book in my hands was the most surreal moment, other than when my kids were born, in my life.

It was a lot of hard work, four and a half years to get it to this point, but it was all worth it! The title is Fable – Book 1 of The Lorn Prophecy. We have several more novels planned, and we also are writing novella’s in between each novel that reaches into the world of Djenrye with more depth and understanding. The first novella should be out this fall. Its title is Fated – From the Chronicles of Djenrye.

Fated gives you a look into how my main character, Stevie Barrett, ends up growing up in Golden, Colorado, and the events that led up to it. Both books are filled with adventure, action, magic and also, love. I hope that some of you will give our books a read and then let me know what you thought.

I will leave my links to my sites below. Feel free to contact me or join my blog. It would be great to have more followers and maybe even Djen fans.




Synopsis:

Stevie Barrett lives an ordinary life in Golden, Colorado, where nothing remarkable ever happens. That is until right before her high school graduation, when Stevie’s life takes a bizarre turn. Her best friends, Jack and Alyssa, want to be supportive, but are confused by the events plaguing Stevie.


Stevie’s mom is attacked by men with glowing gold eyes. A strange being spies on Stevie, hidden in shadow. She has waking visions of a people called the Djen and their archaic world. And when her and her BFFs don’t think it can get any weirder, Stevie heals a stranger with a touch. The abilities build until they are a tidal wave awakening within her and threaten her sense of reality.

Her efforts to understand what is happening lead her and her friends to discover a group known as the Rebellion. These warriors from another dimension are hunting her. Their leader is a man bent on destroying Stevie and possessing her legacy. In order to stop him and save everyone she loves, Stevie and her friends must embark on a quest to find and return Tecton, one of the five Orbs—relics—of the other plane she comes to know as Djenrye. The journey will alter everything she believes, propelling her into another world and another life.


The link to Amazon for the book is: Fable: Book 1 of the Lorn Prophecy -- You can find book excerpts on that page.

For those of you who leave me comments, I will put your name in a hat and draw a winner of a copy of my book and a Starbucks gift card for 10.00. The winner will be announced on my blog site on Sunday evening June 9th.  I look forward to your questions or comments and until then enjoy the blurb and excerpt from the book!

Thanks again for having me as your guest Lee and thanks to those of you who participate in the comment box and who give Fable a read!